In love with a Gemini Men?? Help?

Question

What are Gemini men like as lovers, how do you keep them interested? or get them to fall for you. I have been dating a Gemini Guy for around 5 months now, he likes me alot, we like each other a lot, but he's still hard to figure out!! I am Aries female and he's a Gem as you know. We get on like house on fire, he makes me laugh and he is very stimulating intellectually. But he is also quite elusive, and wants to take things light and easy?? commitment phobic I think as he is 28! he has said he thinks that I could be the one, as we gel so much, but then wants to take each day as it comes. And when, that's if we do have a disagreement, he always chases and calls me which is a good sign, is it not for a Gemini?. How do you get them to fall for you big time? any ideas?? I heard you need to keep them guessing.. when? when your not with them and want them back? or in general and on good terms? if on good terms how? don't phone them for a few days? break up with them to play mind games?? help!

Answer 1

"Aries + Gemini

Fire + Air = Hot Air

Gemini certainly stimulates you, Aries. As you know, the elements of fire and air interact quite explosively. Air fans the flames of your Arian fire. You will enjoy great friendship, great conversation and interesting social times together.
Gemini people don’t really need any more stimulation, but you do have the knack of exciting their creative and verbal sides even more.
Likewise, Geminis will fascinate you with their endless discussions and wacky sense of humour. You love a good laugh, and Geminis will give you that. In fact, they are also very zany, and love the odd prank or two. You’ll gladly join in the fun and add your own cheekiness to the mix.
Be careful not to tire out a Gemini, though. Geminis are ruled by Mercury, which means they live on their nerves — they don’t have your physical staying power, though they do have mental resilience. So go easy on them physically, at least until they learn to keep up with your hectic schedule.
If you are considering a long-term partnership with a Gemini, remember that this combination, as fiery and exciting as it is, has a few drawbacks as well. The constant on-the-go vibe of Aries and the changeable, stop-start quality of Gemini can be an uneasy mix, to say the least.
Both of you are constantly on the go, because you both hanker after new experiences. So you are both likely to be doing a multitude of things simultaneously. With so much energy coming from both sides, can the two of you really settle down? Your multi-tasking lifestyles may make it difficult to achieve the stability that a serious and committed relationship requires.
Your friendship will flourish, though, because Aries is the friendship zone to Gemini. This indicates very successful social companionship. It seems that your best connection to Gemini may be friendship or intermittent intimacy rather than a serious bond.
Your sexual interaction will certainly work well. Gemini inspires you, and between the sheets you’ll both find ample room to explore. Though you may not be destined for long-term marital ties, you can still have plenty of fun together.
Geminis born between 2 June and 12 June are very well suited to Aries for both friendship and romance. This combination could be for keeps, as these Geminis have a magnetic charm and can easily seduce you.
Your relationship with Geminis born between 13 June and 21 June is most likely to be a strong friendship. Spending time together and with friends, enjoying cultural activities and travelling will suit this combination well.
Alas, arguments will plague your relationships with those whose birth dates fall between 21 May and 1 June. This isn’t the best match, unfortunately."

Answer 2

You are a Aries, Your Lover is a Gemini

Got your eye on a Twin? You've met your match! This winsome lover has charm to spare and is as mesmerizing as a dancing flame. You both need lots of excitement -- both of you get bored easily. You both juggle things exceedingly well, and together you'll be running a mile a minute. This is a match of two great communicators, with lots of activities and friends. You'll have impassioned debates and cook up grand schemes on a near-daily basis. One thing you will never run out of is new ideas, so put them to good use anywhere and anytime! Your Gemini will be an excellent "town crier" for you, for few signs get the word out as easily and as effectively as Gemini. At times you may feel you have your own proud personal PR agent.

You are the pioneer in the relationship and will want to get your way most of time. Luckily, Gemini is a mutable sign, and will be happy to let you have your way without complaint. Gemini have their own projects to pursue, so their ego rarely gets riled. If it does, there's no reason to fear. Gemini will let it out and be done with their complaint; they don't hold grudges. A Gemini's presence will seem like a breath of fresh air, and bless him or her for it.

In bed, you generate more heat and passion, but since Geminis mirror behavior so well, you'll soon bring your lover up to your level. Just be sure to slow down a little, Aries. You both are in a hurry, tumbling pell-mell toward the next great thing. When you make love, it might be a good idea to stop and savor your time together.

Since both of you live in the moment, hopefully one of you will also do some serious planning for your future. Neither of you is ultra-practical, or good with detail. You might think about hiring an outside advisor to organize you -- but be sure you listen to them and act on the advice he or she gives!

A life that sparkles like a diamond is what you two have in store. Hang on to your honey!

Answer 3

Good-luck. Ive been dealing with the same exact situation for almost a year. A whole year! Im still crazy about this person. Very, Very unstable when it comes to love and relationships. Im an aquarius and they say that we are perfect matches but I beg to differ.

Answer 4

same troubles here. ive fallen for a typical gemini and im a scorpio. they are very much not into commiting and just get on my nerves. they are not deep and are very inconsistent, and i hate that, but somehow he keeps me coming for more. they like new ideas, the different and get bored easily, trust me. its true that astologically speaking, these two signs arent compatible, but you have to follow your heart with the guidance of your mind.
and remember, astrology is not law, its rules, and rules can always be broken! =)
good luck and the best of wishes. *

Answer 5

oh poor girl I wish you lots of luck....


the most fun people to spend time with, the soul of the party!

BUT.... the most unstable boyfriends....if you can endure the hardships that they will definatey give you....go for it!

sorry I am disapointing you....but I had lots of experience with male geminis....they are the most attractive men.....but they will never be yours.....if you are looking for deep and meanigful long-term commitment you are not going to find it in male geminis...they are the men you can trust and rely less than all the others....
but they are the most pleasurable to be with, damn it!

practice patient and good luck!

Answer 6

I didn't have to read everything you wrote to tell you that your man is going to be evasive and aloof because they like change and in many causes of 2 personalities. I predict that you will be on your toes with this cat. Also, to keep him interested you better change like a chameleon to keep him guessing about what you are up too. As soon as you arent a 'game' he will move on to elude someone else.

Answer 7

God bless if you have the patience to deal with that mess. The best match for aries is a sagg because they are very honest and blunt.

Answer 8

EXCEllent but he was bisexual so I didnt want to keep him... Be an Aquarius to keep him..