can you ever trust a cheater?
2006-11-30 03:06:40 · 11 answers · asked by chastity 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not one of those people that believes "once a cheater always a cheater". I think people can change if they are sincerely sorry, and get some help for the problem that made them cheat in the first place. As far as trusting the cheater, that is something you have to answer for yourself. Maybe you can't at all. Maybe you can with some counseling. You have to make the choice for you.
2006-11-30 03:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally I say no. Once they have done it then it is likely that they will do it again. Now this can change over time...But there is going to really have to be some trust built up first. Cheers
2006-11-30 11:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't put up with that - fortunately, I've not had to deal with any cheaters.
2006-11-30 11:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if he or she will show some commitment and ask for forgiveness. Every one deserves a second chance
2006-11-30 11:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.
You see it all the time on these boards -- people are constantly talking about the SO that they forgave for cheating once, only to discover them cheating again.
2006-11-30 11:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by Karen L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NOPE NO WAY< NO HOW! Once a cheater... always always always always always ALWAYS a cheater!
2006-11-30 11:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes its possible but very hard to regain trust, you don't regain it over night takes alot of time..
2006-11-30 11:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by Shem 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can. Re-offense though?
2006-11-30 11:13:51 · answer #8 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope...thought i could..been 28 years and he's still cheating...shame on me
2006-11-30 11:13:45 · answer #9 · answered by alura_06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-12-02 08:24:15 · answer #10 · answered by john 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋