Ok im not sure if im in love with my ex or if i just think i am. The reason why is becouse a few months ago i told her that i love her I dont think that she belived me. so i only told her a few times more then about a week ago i told her that i needed to move on and find someone that is on my level and just leave her alone but that i wont give up on her. so a few days later she tells me that she loves me and miss me. so why tell me know im tired of trying tired of doing to much and i felt like i was the only one in are relationship. so i been trying to find some one but im not realy looking. I realy care about her i wouldnt want anything to happen to her. I do miss her but im not sure if i realy love her. and the last time i talk to her we argued. Do i just leave her alone or keep trying. U know that saying if its true love let them go and if it comes back then u know. well im not sure what to do.
2006-11-30 02:52:28 · 7 answers · asked by RAINBOW 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I agree with that saying... try it. It happened to me... I was the one that was left. It really hurt me, but she was going through a lot and when she came back she told me she couldnt live without me. Give things some time and see what happens. Give her some space and give yourself space. You know, you dont have to date anyone just because you arent with her... you can be alone. I would be alone right now and just see what happens!
2006-11-30 03:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by U2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the innermost chambers of your heart, you already know what you want. Now it's true that we sometimes stay in relationships because we want to make it work, because we love the other person too much. But the only reason should be love. Love is not just an emotion, it's a serious commitment. Being "in love" is a different thing. Trash my advice if it's wrong but it seems that you are tired of the relationship (the drama and all) and just want to be plain friends. Well, tell her, but don't expect that to happen overnight. You gotta drift apart and check out other things in life first, then one day you'll bump into each other and talk of old memories... Yeah maybe that's the part of "when they come back to you", maybe you'll feel differently then.
Remember being in a relationship with someone is your choice.
2006-11-30 11:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do anything at this point...you don't know what you want to do, you dont' have to do anything...so sit pat and wait. Date whoever, including her if you and she want, but I suspect that you will find it is very hard to "go back." All the same issues are waiting to flare up. In rare instances, it works. Usually, the "throw up your hands and walk" stuff happens early in the second coming. Why do you feel you have to have a partner? Being alone is not a bad thing, and there are many pluses to it. Good luck
2006-11-30 15:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u think u still love her then give her another chance.
2006-11-30 16:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by Nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you still care...Try making it work
2006-12-01 03:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only time will tell follow your heart and you shall find what you really want xoxo
2006-11-30 11:03:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give her another chance.
2006-11-30 14:03:36 · answer #7 · answered by babygirl11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋