It was about 2 mos ago at a party. I had way to much to drink and most every one was passed out. My friend and i were still drinking and so was this other guy that we didnt know. The last thing i remember was going to the bathroom and this guy whom i dont even know his name wallked in. after that i have no memory of what happend next. My freind cant remember much either all she knows is that we were in the batroom mabey 15 mins. I woke up the next morn in my own bed at home and i dont even know how i got there. I know for a fact that up untill that night i was a virgin. could we have had sex that night and me not know it the next day? wouldnt i have bben able to tell if i lost my virginity? And now i am almost 2 mos late on my period and i am really worried that we did something and im pregnant. I cant ask the guy becuase no one is reaaly shure who he is. What do you think?
2006-11-30 02:30:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Your doctor can not tell you if you are a virgin or not.
The hymen, a membrane covering the external opening of the vagina, is usually present in girls or women until something--like penetrative sex or masturbation--has ruptured it. During a gynecological exam, a doctor would be able to see whether or not a girl has a hymen. But lack of a hymen alone does not necessarily indicate that intercourse has occurred. Some girls and women rupture their hymens during jostling sports like horseback riding, for example.
Did you have any blood on your panties? That could be an iindicator you did have sex, but not proof either way.
Also, if you think you could be pregnant it is important to get a test and find out. Until you know for sure do not drink anymore.
You should go to a gynocologist and have an exam and be tested for STD's. You may not think it is possible but if you did have sex or was raped... it is possible. Explain what happened to the doctor and they have a patient doctor confidentiality agreement, so this information may not be shared.
If everything looks okay, then you don't need to worry about it anymore. And when the time is right to become sexually active, you will definatly know if you had sex before.
And last, be more careful. This situation was completely avoidable. You do not need to drink until you pass out to have a good time!
Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.
2006-11-30 02:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by I am Crystal S. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eeee... that's scary hun. As far as pregnancy goes, I would take a pregnancy test.
You would have been able to tell if something had happened if you had gone to the clinic the day after, and had a gynological exam to see if there was semen still lurking. The problem with determining virginity, is that the hymen can break from slipping off the peddle of a bike and hitting yourself hard, or even just using a tampon.
I would definitely see a doctor though, if your hymen is still in tact, they'd be able to tell you, and you should be checked for STD's etc.
Please be careful when you're drinking.
Good luck with everything.
2006-11-30 02:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by flycreature 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, absolutely! Besides the alcohol, maybe a date rape drug was put in your drink. Either way, you were raped. This happened to my friend; her story's like yours. She didn't remember anything either, but knew something had... especially because when she awoke, he was still there, asleep. She did get pregnant. After the baby was born, she went back to school, got a degree and a good job. She really loves her little girl. I admired her courage. With you, it may be too long to be checked with a rape kit, and have the police document it. But, you certainly need to be checked out by your family Dr., and tell him what happened to you. He'll advise you better than anyone else can, and contact the proper authorities. I'm so sorry this has happened to you. I wish you all the love and support you need now. And, that SOB needs to be stopped; just think, he could be doing this to other girls, just like you.
2016-05-23 04:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should check with the doctor and also if you aren't a virgin anymore you need to get a PAP ASAP. You could of come in contact with an STD. You need to be more careful. Drinking is one thing but having sex and not knowing it is another. You wouldn't want anything serious to happen. Good luck.
2006-11-30 02:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible that you lost your virginity without remembering doing it. You should go to your doctor or a planned parenthood clinic and get tested for pregnancy and STD's. You made a mistake and there is no way to take it back but you can take care of yourself and potentially your baby's life by not avoiding the problem because you are scared and taking care of yourself now.
2006-11-30 02:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still had your hymen, I doubt you could have had sex/been raped without knowing it. If you lost your hymen earlier in life (this can happen from things other than sex), I would guess that you probably would have felt it in the morning but I can't be sure--I'm not a woman. Get to a doctor so you don't have to worry about all these things you don't know--find out what your situation is and then decide whether to worry.
2006-11-30 02:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it was possible that he took your virginity. And if you are 2 months late it is a high possibility that you are pregnant. I know this wasn't the way you wanted something like losing your virginty to happen, but that is why you have to be more responsible and keep your self out of those situations. If you would like to talk to me more about this you can reach me via email at jrcurtis7413@yahoo.com I know how you feel except my story was a little different.
2006-11-30 02:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A) you can black out if you drink too much B) Go see a OB/GYN for a check up and never let yourself get so drunk that you can't tell WHAt you did in the morning. Good luck and have faith. We all make mistakes just try to learn from them and do better in future.
2006-11-30 02:56:36 · answer #8 · answered by Lovely B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my, well if you are 2 months late with your period I would be concerned. Definitely go to the doctor and get a pregnancy test and get checked for STD's. I am sorry you're in this predicament. In the future, try to drink responsibly.
2006-11-30 02:37:41 · answer #9 · answered by Jester 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no easy way to solve this... Take a pregnancy test... If it is positive you know it happened that night. Stress can also cause you to be late. Good luck and I really hope everything works out for you.
2006-11-30 02:34:29 · answer #10 · answered by joni_lynne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋