I had a few hazardous relathionships and a shitload of traumas.I got thru a lot of things but know I feel a need to have someone,to love someone and feel loved,my last relathionship finished in june this year.I really need an advice,being with someone is not a problem,I can easyly find a person but right now I am just too vulnerable to start something new.The main problem is that I feel like I need to have someone,could it be an adiction or just the fact that since I vulnerable for what I have been thru I need someone near me... ideas ?
2006-11-30 01:46:35 · 6 answers · asked by in_urma 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Ok so since it is an adiction how on earth can I get rid of it ?
The way that it afects my life in a negative way is that I fall in love with all the wrong persons.
2006-11-30 02:05:35 · update #1
I don't know that it is an addiction as much as your personality is one in which you have a high need for affection. To some the thought of being alone is such a prominent fear that they allow themselves to develop relationships with others too quickly. Some people are more comfortable being in a relationship (even if they know that it is not a healthy relationship) than being alone. As far as what can be done, you need to get to a point to where you are fully comfortable with yourself. Develop some individual hobbies and set aside a given amount of time each week to spend time alone. Becoming more comfortable with yourself will assist in allowing yourself to feel more comfortable with being alone.
2006-11-30 13:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by Jason H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person can be addicted to anything. Addictions are generally the inability to control these desires while producing a negitive affect to the person. The feeling to love and be loved is caused by a chemical produced by the body, hence your body becomes addicted to this chemical and you strive to get your fix of this chemical.
Just the same as people who are angry or sad all the time, thier bodies produce this chemical which makes them feel this way and they strive to get thier fix. Just like a herion addict would.
I would say it is only an addiction when it is at the point that it is affecting your life in a negitive way.
Cheers,
2006-11-30 09:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Addicted? Everybody have the need to love and be loved. Just wait for the right person, because the, is more full filling. By the way, Galileo Galilei. Anyway, it moves.
2006-11-30 09:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by elgil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can. You do 'need' someone. You are only human and you need to get out there. Yes dopamine is the drug released in the brain..It is agony without it. below is a link to help as well...good luck.
Love is a Drug
When Cupid's arrow hits the heart, it starts a flood of brain chemicals that may keep us coming back for more.
http://www.sciencentral.com/articles/view.php3?language=english&type=article&article_id=218392170
2006-11-30 09:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by Tabor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You gotta take a risk.
2006-11-30 09:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck yes
2006-11-30 09:54:33 · answer #6 · answered by dimadee91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋