hiya i'm in a very big problem i have fell in love with someone he is 14 and i'm 13 i was gonna ask him out but i'm scared he will say no and not talk to me again also his best friend is my best friend too we have been friends for nearly 7 months. he called me beautiful but i don't know if he feels the same.
help
pinky xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
also i don't wanna fall out with none of them.
2006-11-30 01:29:11 · 14 answers · asked by danni 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Babygirl, take time ask your best friend if it will be alright to ask his friend out, then if he says yes which he should do, because he's your BEST FRIEND, (and he will only want the best for you,)
Then go for it. Hope it all works out for you please let us know via site.
2006-11-30 05:05:28 · answer #1 · answered by bty912324 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are agonising over it and keep thinking about him and how you feel. The best way forward is to disclose how you feel. Its best to get it out in the open, talking from personal experience I told someone and regretfully even though they have not felt the same we are still good friends so it doesn't mean the end to your friendship! It is better to tell rather than regret as I have no ill feelings about expressing how I felt because then you can truly move on if he doesn't feel the same
2006-11-30 10:03:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
pinky,
If he called you beautiful, then he likes you.
Nobody minds being liked by someone else, so he won't fall out with you because he knows you like him.
Sadly though, the best way to fall out with someone in the future is to have a relationship with them. Any chance you could just enjoy all being friends? Then maybe in time, something else might come of it.
2006-11-30 09:41:31 · answer #3 · answered by nev 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hello!!
ask him, u have nothing to loose...
the worst thing he could say is "no".
i cant see he would stop talkin to you if you asked, just make sure you ask at a suitable time, and maybe when your alone together....
why dont you ask if he would like to hang out after school or something, if he likes you then he will want to spend time with u. if he says no, respect his wishes, and just stay good friends.
ur only young once, so live each day as ur last and make the most of being a teen, b4 you know it you'l be in ur twenties....
2006-11-30 09:36:12 · answer #4 · answered by geminially 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
listen hun...your still very young...seriously...stay friends with this lad until you know the true meaning of love....it's best to have friends than lovers...especially at your age....a year from now you will be asking yourself what all the fuss was about...your feelings mayhave changed by then...these 2 will take care of you, that's why it's important to have friends....so stick with the friendship thing, it's less complicated
2006-11-30 11:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what makes you so sure that he will say no? maybe he secretly is feeling the same way about you and he's shy to ask you out. i think life is full of chances, and you should take it. ask him for example, "Do you want to go to the movies next Saturday? there is this film.... and i really wish to see it". in this way, you are not asking him out directly and he will remain friends with you either way
good luck
2006-11-30 09:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not in love... get a grip!!
Keep these boys as friends and find someone else. failed relationships often mess up friendships.
Learn from this and don't say, when you're older and have experienced loving and losing friends, that no one gave you advice..... because I just have... so take it!!
2006-11-30 09:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by Just me 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Since yall have the same best friend get him to hook yall up
2006-11-30 09:33:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I Think you should wait for the right time to come
2006-11-30 09:34:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask your mutual friend for advise and then go from there
you never really know until you ask - be brave he can only say no
good luck x
2006-11-30 09:31:24 · answer #10 · answered by weizy_26 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋