what is wrong with ex's????

Question

okay, i need help. My ex boyfriend WONT leave me alone, nor will his fiance. Me and him have not been together in years. She posts blogs about me and he set up a account on some kind of ex-webpage where he just just shoot me down. i dont understand. Im married now and living in another state. He is obsessed with thinking that i want to break them up, which is ridiculous. IM MARRIED and very much in love with my husband. He actually emailed me today telling me to go on with my "pathetic life". Obviously i allready have, i am married and very happy. how can i get him out of my life, and keep my name out of his and his fiancee's mouth?? and why are they doing this??

now wait a minute, some people seem to think i am LOOKING for this and seem to think that i am RESPONDING to this. like i said before i am married and have no use for this mess with my EX. i didnt do anything to him when we were together, we broke up because he cheated on me, plain and simple. i dont look for their stuff on the internet, i guess wherveer he posted his webpage sent me an email letting me know he posted me as an EX. im not looking for anything but to get them gone.

Answer 1

they smell

one time at band camp
i saw a bird

it looked like my ex

Answer 2

Hey Rennie;
First of all...remove your ex from your e-mail...what I am suggesting is that you block him form e-mailing you...that way he can never e-mail you again. I have an ex-husband in another state and he CANNOT e-mail me. Second of all..if you two have been over and you both have moved on..he OBVIOUSLY still wants you...inside...but he will NEVER admit it. His wife hates you because he has probably compared you to him in a positive way...such as" Rennie cooked better than you....cleaner than you..etc..perhaps when they were arguing...she in turn is pissed off..but you will never know what he has told her about you to make her react to you this way..if there are no children involved..then they don't need to contact you at all. If this problem persists, you can press charges for aggravated harrasment against these two who must not spend a lot of time with each other, I really beleive that they are miserable together and are angry that you have found true happiness. I have been in a similar situation and I found out that my ex-husband and his wife fight constantly and are not happy, which was the only reason he had anything negative to say about me. I wish you love and happiness. THose two will get what they deserve...when they break up he will trash her name and reputation as he is trying to do with you.

Answer 3

No you're no longer incorrect, yet for sure your ex and their father could no longer care much less approximately how many infants he has in this worldwide. If he's stupid sufficient to bypass on nationwide television for a paternity try, then i think of it would be extra effective so which you are able to take a seat with your daughters and enable them to understand what's happening until eventually now somebody else sees him someplace and tells them. i desire that for the period of the destiny you come across a respectable guy which will look after your daughters the way they are meant to be cared for, because of the fact little women certainly desire a solid guy impact of their lives. solid luck

Answer 4

You have a couple of choices, ignore it, or do something about..

if you ignore it setup a rule in your email client to delete any emails from him don't worry about what is posts on a jilted lover website.

OR
you can contact an attorney, personally it sounds as if his life it the pathetic one and the resentment he holding on to is nearly pathological.
You need to protect yourself. Go to the gun range and buy a side arm and learn how to shoot it.

If you are mentioned by name on the website contact the owner of the website and inform them they will be named as a party to a lawsuit if his posts are not removed.

call the county attorney and have a restraining order drawn up on him to cease and desist, including the internet harassment. print all your evidence to bring to the county attorney.

Have your attorney file a suit against him and g/f for harassment and stalking behavior.

Answer 5

You can't really do anything about how someone else feels about you or says about you or writes about you in a blog or anything else. The only thing you can do is to deal with it as best you can. For all intents and purposes he IS out of your life and the best thing to do is to ignore him and his fiancee. Don't let his petty ideas bother you and when he emails you just delete the emails without reading them. You will feel better.....trust me. Anytime you allow someone else to "get to you" you are hurting yourself. Forget him and his fiancee and go about your business and life. Sooner or later they will stop and you will never hear from them again.

Answer 6

Yes I agree ex's can be a handful. That is the way some are though. They are so insecure about them selves that they have to put other people down to make them selves feel better. If it is really bothering you have him charged with defemation of character and harassment. I wouldn't put up with those things. I am sure you are alot better person then what he is making you out to be. Don't let it bother you. Also what ever you do don't go down to their level. If you think of it like a game of chess if you go to their level you have basically given up the game to them. Good Luck and I hope they leave you alone soon.

Answer 7

UH, mam.....IGNORE THEM! Why you would even know about what they are up to in another state no less, suggests there is more to this story than what you have let on. And if its been years since you have been with him, why do you know his fiance? I mean really? I don't believe this. The best way to get under someones skin is to IGNORE them like they don't exist. Try doing that and this will all go away and if it doesn't how does it change your life in any way in another state? Living well is the best revenge, they are just haters so move on and let them spew in their own orbit, being in another state who CARES????

Answer 8

don't take their bait. remove all contact, and stop reading their blogs :) It's hard to sit back and watch others bad mouth you, but you really need to not let it bother you, or ACT like it doesn't bother you. They really need to get a life, and hey, why waste all your energy worrying and getting mad about those sad little people??? Block him, change your email address, but completely CUT OFF all ties to this loser. They obviously enjoy doing this to you. Cut off their enjoyment by having a "whatever" attitude about it! Hard to do, but give it a try! Best of luck.

Answer 9

It sounds like to me they are very jealous of you and your life.. I would just ignore them.. Maybe you should post a blog about how happy your life is.. and how much you love your husband.. Dont worry about it dear... You are much better than they are! Let them continue to be jealous.. As I always say "Jealousy is a disease, get well soon"!!!

Answer 10

-Block his emails.
-Get caller ID and block his calls. If there are kids involved, set up specific times to talk.
-Keeping your name out of their mouths is more difficult. You can avoid the blogs and webpage. Don't read them. If it really bothers you, then consider a libel/defamation of character lawsuit.
-As to why they are doing this, I don't know. There are 2 sides to every story. Maybe someone else is playing games with them and they think it is you. Try to talk to him or her about it.

Best of luck.

Answer 11

The times I have seen this happen is when the other partners relationship is in trouble they deflect their hatred of each other onto someone else who they can agree on it takes their mind of there problems in there relationship .I would change my pc ID ,password and phone number and never look for yourself on the internet again as long as you keep answering back this will continue .If they send letters to your home send them back not at this address .