i used to have a girl friend .. we broke up because her parents didn't like something ... she used to love me too but stopped talking to me all of the sudden .. it has been more then 6 months now. one of her friends says that she still thinks abt me but going for arranged marriage of her parents wish .. i tried to call her .. she just said stop IRRITATING me .. i didn't even say marry me .. i just called to know how is she
did i do something wrong
why did she tell i irritate when i didn't use any of those kind words .. i just said "hi can we meet "
hope u people have answer for me .. v r from india .. if anyone with like mentality answer
2006-11-30 01:10:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
her friend told you that u r still on her mind........she is already finding it difficult to forget you and meeting her will remind her how wonderful her life was with you which in turn will make it more difficult for her to forget you.....she wants to stop thinking about you but she does not know how and that's why she acted rudely cause she is actually getting irritated with herself and has to deal with her emotions.........you on the other hand seem a nice enough person who truly cares and wants to know if she is doing well...but u must realise that this phase is really tough for her and you must distance yourself from her and allow her to forget you as she will be very soon starting a new life with someone else..........it takes a lot of guts to accept that one you love is the one you cannot have..........you have accepted that very well.....so let time be the best healer.......let her move on and you can move on too.......all the best........
2006-11-30 03:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's getting married which means that she's ready to move on with the next stage of her life. There is no need for her to meet, speak to, or see you right now because it would be inappropriate. Women who are about to get married, do not go and meet their ex boyfriends. I don't think she meant it when she told you that you were "irritating" her. I think that was just her way of telling you to leave her alone. She still thinks about you and may still have feelings for you, but there is nothing she can do about it because you two obviously cannot be together. Now matter what information her friend is telling you, there is nothing your ex g/f can do about it. So it's best for you to move on.
2006-11-30 01:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is something you just need to play "okay i'll give you your space" kind of things.
I mean you said that one of her friends said that she still thinks of you, right? Well, test that!
Keep away from her. Not completely stay away, but rather where she's at earshot, y'know?
Don't say hi, if she wants to talk let her come to you first. To me that's a rule! Never bother a young woman when she doesn't want to talk! Ever! That ruens your friendship.
Besides, "absence makes the heart grow fonder!"
2006-11-30 01:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by Best of the new 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok.. heres the thing.. maybe she does love u.. if she does.. the onli reason y she sed dat 2 u is probably cuz she got family probs.. ppl around her.. pressure.. shez probably been influenced so much by the ppl around her dat she doesnt know what is rite n wad is wrong nemore..
noder reason cud b cuz maybe she realized in the middle of the relationship dat u guys werent headin nowhere..
or shez 2 scared 2 do or say anythin..
the 1st 1z probably true.. my dad tells my sis all that all the time but she LUCKILY doesnt listen nd does her mind.. im indian 2..
2006-11-30 21:21:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
friend firstof all i will give you thank for not breaking heart.In todays world I think nothing is constant in the ever changing world. have you seen the movieDHADKAN? So my dear friend stop crying for the gal who is not in your destiny.Try for another . At last you also have to tie knot by an arrange mairrage ,If I am guessing correctly.
2006-11-30 02:05:21 · answer #5 · answered by shiba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes obiviously just doing what her parents want and not thinking about her own happiness by saying them things i think shes just trying to push you away because seeing or hearing from you is reminding her how unhappy she is.Unfortunitly your going to have to let her make her own mistakes and try to move on.maybe send her a message through her friends telling her you'll be there for her if she needs you so if by chance she finds the courage to stand up to her parents she knows she has you.Its a tough one i hope it all works out for you!
2006-11-30 01:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by keevy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly this situation is not a comforting 1 but u have 2 be strong & get control of ur self & ur life...She's gone for good... & you need to move on 2...I know its not easy not 4 u & neither for her...
But i guess its better this way....Good Luck
2006-11-30 02:01:51 · answer #7 · answered by Drift King 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You irritated her by calling her, not by what you said. She's made up her mind about you. Move on.
2006-11-30 01:19:06 · answer #8 · answered by NeonLoveChicken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she loves u ,she cant say these words.I dont think she loves u.
I she loves then may be somebody is around of her so she replied like this.Otherwise there is no reason.
2006-11-30 01:18:38 · answer #9 · answered by juhi_saxena18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i does no longer %. a combat with he/she, incase they circulate and knock my tooth out. i'm only provide them the aggravated look, once I stare at them with my eyes 0.5 open from an attitude. or maybe only circulate "EWWWW" and then furnish them the aggravated look.
2016-10-13 10:29:04 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋