We love each other a lot.Though we love each other we will never get married coz my parents will never agree bcoz i am a hindu and he is a muslim and also that he is already married and has kid. There is no problem from his side as he is ready to leave his her come to me coz he loves me a lot. Theres no doubt in that. To be more frank. he firts knew me as a fan when he was doing a job as DJ. after that due to some reasons we didn't have any contacts. for 3 years. Within that so many things happened an he got married. he got married in 2000 but he started to talk with me from 2002 and still we are. He wants to make love and vice versa. But i am scared about my virginity.if i loose it to him in the future i will face problems as i live in country where they look into culture, tradtions, customs and son on....My question is should i have sex with him or wait till i get married to another hindu guy. I don't have the mind of betraying the person whom i will meet in the future too.
2006-11-30 00:46:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
For a girl in your situation( with regards to religion,marriage,customs, & family...) there`s only one right answer, which is to WAIT. I think you already know that this is the answer you seek, but you just need reassurance. Most of the people here on Yahoo will tell you the same. So think using your mind, as well as your heart, on this one.
2006-11-30 01:59:22 · answer #1 · answered by Lrdwilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many years ago, I met and became involved with a man who "lived with his sister" I later find out "sis" was his wife, he begged me to not break it off and PROMISED to divorce her(they had no children) He is now still with his wife and I found and married a wonderful man. Don't sell yourself short to a man that is not even yours, he "technically" belongs to someone else, he should divorce the wife before he goes around having sex with other women. This man will use you, he may have done this before, do NOT let this man use you.
Your virginity is something that should not be given up lightly, this man does not deserve it. I wish you the best of luck in whatever you decide.
2006-11-30 01:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dont. He is married and he is using you as a piece of meat to get what he obviously doesn't get from his wife.
Virginity is a sacred and beautiful thing, dont waste it on someone who isn't even yours after all. You will never forget the moment and you dont want it to be horrible memories, now do you?Be very careful. It's good that you are thinking about it and not just jumping in it. Your future husband deserves this honour.
2006-11-30 00:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by Jade22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
firs my Q is . are u in India NOW. if u r. u mint face alto of problem if . in fact I m muslime too. and there is no way I will married a Hindu. that's because my parents. but I know u love him. and its hard for u . but listen to this sis. "If hes ganna leave his wife to came to u" letter hes ganna leave u for a norther women. whatever u did to her will do it to u. don't trust man. don't lose u virginity.. aI know virginity is really important to Hindu as well to Muslims... but if u were in USA ans in USA u cam married him... u get u right. if u have any other Q please fell free to email me thank
2006-11-30 01:07:51 · answer #4 · answered by I_belong_to_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!! Do not have sex with this man, because one.....he's married...two....he has a child...three.....what makes you think he will leave his wife??? Chances are....he probably won't. He will continue to tell you he will leave her, but won't. The fact he cheated on his wife with you....what makes you think he won't do it to you??? He will. Find someone else that isn't married. Move on!!!
2006-11-30 00:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is married!So, how could you make love to him?
If he will divorce it's OK!but if not,don't do it!
I live in a free country but I wouldn't do it!
2006-11-30 00:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by reginuta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know it is against your culture and customs, so why are you asking this question? Save yourself for your own husband.
2006-11-30 01:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's married and just gonna use you, so don't do it.
2006-11-30 00:53:12 · answer #8 · answered by chike 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋