I mean, total humiliation isn't totally off the cards, but I just want him to know that everyone thinks he's a complete ***! He finished with me after we had a really lovelly day, then went out and slept with some tart, and now he's had some1 else! any suggestions?
2006-11-30 00:09:34 · 16 answers · asked by Li 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The biggest punishment you can give him is to forget about him completely and let Karma do the rest - it will come and bite him on the butt without you having to waste any of your precious time even thinking about him.
If he's sleeping around like you say, then sooner or later that is going to catch up with him. It sounds like you had a lucky escape - count your blessings and move on!
He's obviously not worth a moment of your time or a shred of your brain space. You're worth more than that and to try and exact revenge would diminish you as the better person in all of this.
What goes around comes around - you won't have to do a thing!
Enjoy your new found freedom!
2006-11-30 00:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by Witchywoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is my story. My ex dumped and ending up back in bed with her ex before me that night. I was humiliated. It took me 3 months before I could move on. I didn't keep in touch with her and avoided all her friends. I ended up eventually meeting someone fantastic and now I'm engaged! My ex's friends have seen me around town with my fiance and word has got back to her. I guess my ex wasn't doing as well as I thought. Her ex cheated on her again and she's now single. The ex contacted me, the best revenge I had was this, I thanked her for dumping me. I told her if she didn't treat me like crap I would have never met anyone as wonderful as my fiance. I think that really ticked her off.
2006-11-30 00:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best form of revenge .. move on, forget about him, and get on with your life. Let him go. If he's so small minded and pathetic as to do those things to you you're better off without him. Humiliating of hurting him is just going to show him that you still think of him and you're still hurt.
Seriously, forget, move on and be happy
2006-11-30 00:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by Leiani 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i don't know what to say because there really isn't a way to get revenge without hurting there feelings.
the only thing that i can think of would be to play along with him and do something totally stupid
if not just go out with his friend and show off
well good luck
2006-11-30 01:15:26 · answer #4 · answered by provenmazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your best revenge is to move on and live a good life. ppl like him will eventually get what they deserve. it may seem like he's having fun and doing well right now and maybe he is...for the moment but the bad things you do always catch up to you...always. now you may not witness it first hand but it will happen. so forget him, move on find someone who will treat you right and have a good life...the torture that will cause him seeing you happy and successful will more than get revenge.
2006-11-30 00:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is be happy. It will hurt him to see that you have moved on. He probably exepcts you to be down and wish you were still with him. If you show him that you don't need him at all he will see what he lost.
Get over him!
2006-11-30 07:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by ((♥)) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UMMH>>>>hello? Im not really sure WHAT to say? You said it all...That's nasty...let me guess the only reason you need some convincing walk away words ,,,,,you slept with him right? Well, whoopty-doo sounds like every1 else has too! Walk away and Dont look back..
2006-11-30 00:22:11 · answer #7 · answered by shaylea29 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let go of revenge, it's not a healthy state of mind. You will be a better person.
2006-11-30 00:16:55 · answer #8 · answered by Denny Crane 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
was it a lemon tart just let him go u can't make someone love u its his lost hold your head up high
2006-11-30 00:12:26 · answer #9 · answered by sonoftazont 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he shouldnt even exist to u anymore treat him as such...you dont need him.....get a shirt made with something crazy on it or just walk by him and completelt ignore him
2006-11-30 00:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by Cnj77060 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋