well we were loving each other since last 5 yrs.Due to castisim she has been enforsed to marry some other guy of her caste..I dont want her parents to feel embrased in their community so we secrifised our love..I m missing her i know she will not come back to me...What should i do..I will not able to forget her...I loved her so much....
2006-11-30 00:06:46 · 17 answers · asked by dkissmat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Love her till end of life.
Respect her.
be there when she needs you.
you dont need to forget her..
It is LOVE man it happen once in life and stay FOREVER..
2006-11-30 00:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by Abhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude. Screw that whole caste thing. If you love each other get married and if they don't like it then move some place where you dont' have to put up with their foolishness. I'm not in the know about all of indian culture but I do find it hypocritical that your religious teachings of love are completely ignored when it comes to caste systems. Did your gods say love was only for a certain caste? You need to find it in yourself to go after what is true.
Or just leave all together. Love transcends all boundaries, caste, color and otherwise. If she's willing to marry you and transcend the caste concept then you should do it!
2006-11-30 00:24:45 · answer #2 · answered by Cybrocupid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi
He felt sorry to hear this.
But also felt very proud to get to know such a friend who sacrificed his love for her parents. Your Sacrifice will pay you one day with good returns.Believe me,I am very sure you will meet some who is as good and kind as you some day.
Hats off to you both.
My simple advice to you would be to go out and spend time with people who's company you enjoy the most.So that it will be little easier to forget the one you love,also try keeping your self busy with all types of work you enjoy and some interesting work were you can learn new things-So that your mind will be diverted from what hurts you the most.And what your are feeling now is a natural process to heal.So take it as it comes.It will only help you and make you stronger.
Best of Luck
Great Friend
2006-11-30 00:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by netra k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey u are a gem, where do u get guys like these in this generation? U r a living example of love and I am sure with time when your wounds heal, u will find someone, probably a better person... All the best mate and remember u r just the best!
2006-11-30 02:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say she is marrying someone else to avoid embarrassment. It is ridiculous, stupid, that you believe that avoiding embarrassment is more important than love. You don't have your priorities straight. If people get embarrassed, too bad -- that's their problem, not yours. You should do what is right, and not blindly follow others' expectations. Be a man, have some courage, and stand up for the woman you love.
2006-11-30 00:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you cannot see it at this time, because it hurts so much, but you will get over her. Quite often, when someone is taken out of your life, especially abruptly, someone even better will be sent to you. Believe me, it happened to me. Don't go out there looking for love, it will find you. It will be more powerful than you could ever imagine. Good Luck.
2006-11-30 01:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I appreciate your maturity levels.You people good attitude. Slowly you would get to live without her. I know memories would haunt you,to overcome this U need to keep yourselves busy all the day for at least2-3 months. Then U yourself find the difference.Anyway Best of Luck for Rest of your life
2006-11-30 00:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by praveen c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the video by Jon Secada and his song "If You Go" and that is what you should do. Go on the wedding day and take the bride (the one you love) away. Believe me....you will regret it for the rest of your life if you do not try to stop her from marrying.
2006-11-30 00:30:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, in 18 to 20 months you would have forgotten about her totally. You will be able to find someone else to love over that time period. Do not regret this loss--it was probably meant to be.
2006-11-30 00:10:02 · answer #9 · answered by neutral 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey what is for you are waiting ,go to your parents and ask them to see a good bride for you.And if possible try to tie the knot on the day on which your girlfriend is tieing the knot.OR GIVE AN AD IN TIMES MATRIMONY.WHAT IS HAPPENING TO YOU?IN MAN'S HEAD IT IS NOT WRITTEN TO WORRY FOR GIRLS.THINK ABOUT THE NATION FIRST
2006-11-30 02:15:20 · answer #10 · answered by shiba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋