2006-11-29 23:38:04 · 6 answers · asked by rholah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you have any reason to feel this way? Focus on the things you have already accomplished. For example, you finished high school, something so many people don't. And you are planning to study. Make plans on how to accomplish that and imagine what a bright future you have. Because I know you have a great future. Good luck.
2006-11-29 23:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by elgil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self esteem can be a fickle thing, kind of like a roller coaster; one minute your at the top looking forward to whats coming next or sometimes at the very bottom just wishing for the bad things to come to an end. An important aspect of being happy, or at least having good self esteem is to find a middle ground, don't always aim for your best expectations on unrealistic situations, you'll only destroy even more of your self esteem and never expect only the bad things to happen in a tough situation. that's the first thing to creating more self esteem
The best thing I can suggest after you do that is find something you do or want to do and just do it, Don't worry about what people will think or what will say. you just worry about having a good time and i GUARANTEE that people will look at what you do and say "holy crap, that looks like fun" and before you know it you'll have people wanting to follow your example and even get to know you and spend time with you. Point is do what you want to do, find something that makes you happy and do it. You would be surprised how much fun it is to live your life rather than just going through the motions...
I hope this helps you
2006-11-30 07:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by ianstrife_77_77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think high of yourselff...don't worry too much about thins ....God has his own way of teaching us various thins so if somethin is goin wrong in your life just be patient..time will make them smooth as ever:)
n the best way to live life is to live it for others..so try n help someone out in distress..believe me nothin will work better to bost up your esteem than this!!
Cheers!!!!!!
2006-11-30 07:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To get self esteem you must do esteemable acts. Got to give to recieve
2006-11-30 07:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a daiquiri and unwind.
2006-11-30 07:40:05 · answer #5 · answered by iamlsu 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
GO FIND A NEW BOYFRIEND
2006-11-30 07:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋