i have sex regularly with my boyfriend i'm only 16 he is too, but he can't seem to pleasure me like he used to, i tell him its fine but he gets depressed. should he either improve his performance or should i just get used to it?
2006-11-29 23:29:52 · 18 answers · asked by jenny w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're too young to be having sex!
2006-11-29 23:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by MHB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you two are 16 yrs old? Second, are you two using condoms? Third, have you two thought about the consequences should you conceive a baby?
I had to ask all the above because I feel you're engaging in behavior that might lead to an unwanted pregnancy, especially if you two are goal-oriented with studies and a career. There's so much out there for you two cultivate success.
Anyway, regarding the sex... do you two engage in foreplay? Perhaps, he can arouse you a bit longer til you get in the mood... or perhaps, you two can do some roleplay (teacher-student, nurse-patient, etc) to add some spice to your game. Great sex could be acheived through practice. Good luck!
take care!
peace,
erwin
2006-11-30 07:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by Ebones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before I answer your question, let me say the following: Your lucky that your not my daughter because I would have given you up to 3 months to leave my house; if your sexually active, then your a grown-up to me and you can take care of yourself.... by the way, according to the "law" your too young to have sex, hence you would be in big trouble........ moving onto my answer to your question, this is my answer: try to get him to "improve his performance"... if that doesn't work, then "get use to it".... OR find another boyfriend. Hope this helps, Take care.
2006-12-03 18:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy_m_espana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't you find something else to do. Are you so desperate to keep nailed down to a futile relationship? Lots of interesting and promising people out there. You seem like such a lost soul.
2006-11-30 08:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are just so used to sex that you need to take a break from it. go like 2-3 weeks and then try again. im sure you'll be pleasured!!!
2006-11-30 07:32:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are too young to be having sex. Second if your bf can't make you happy why would you "just get used to it? Neither one of you probably know what you're doing.
2006-11-30 07:34:24 · answer #6 · answered by Barry W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you and your boyfriend need to stop haveing sex cause yall r to young to be doing that wait untill you r married or old enough to be living on your own cause i dont want you to mess you life up just for some plesure think before you keep letting it go
2006-11-30 14:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by Brandi S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be worrying about School work not sex you are to young wait till your older and married
2006-11-30 08:25:13 · answer #8 · answered by SAHM and proud of it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want more pleasure, then change positions or get something new to enjoy...
Or get another guy to pleasure you...
2006-11-30 07:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just gotta give the man a chance everybody gos through a slump from time to time
2006-11-30 07:32:43 · answer #10 · answered by matty b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋