Why am i so unlucky in my life?!!?

Question

i am so unlucky.... i probably am one of the people god wanted born to live a damn horrible life...

first off im ugly
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2nd i have a unibrow and my parents wont let me remove it
3rd i just moved away from my entire family and all my friends.. just so my dad can get a better job here
4th im not smart and probably have no future other than joining the army
and lastly i have no life anymore
i go to school come back and go straight to work as a stocker at at grocery store

god damn i am so unlucky!!!!

Answer 1

I can guarantee that you will have an unlucky life if you approach the day with that attitude. We get what we get as a human being at birth. It is our life's work to get from where we are to where we want to be. Right now you are where you are because of age, life experience (not much yet) and circumstance. You say you are in school and you have a job after school. At this age "education" is your primary job. How much effort do you put in at your primary job? If you don't put in much effort and use your brain then I would conclude that you are not a good worker and I probably would not hire you. Your secondary job is as a stocker at a grocery store. Bet dozens of guys at school would kill to have that very appropriate and rather cool job. And as for the unibrow, go to a stylist and get your hair done professionally and have the unibrow gone. You are at least 16 and if your parent(s) don't "allow" it, tell them the brow is on the floor of the stylist's shop and do they want you to go retrieve it. Find some backbone. As for your having to give up all those friends and your entire family just so daddy can get a "better job." I don't think so. You are not being honest there and if you cannot be honest then I don't think I would want to hire you.
So, let's look at your life: You are about 16 1/2 years old, you are in school (of course) and you are challenged to do a bangup job including homework (reason: If we can't handle a homework assignment we won't be able to handle a job assignment) and learn social skills by socializing with other teens at school - and with teachers. You go home and homework if you have it, eat what you want because you can cook your own and then you go to a local market where you do a bangup job and impress your boss and get lots of good feedback. They pay you for your work so you have $$$ to spend/save/share. And you are 24/7 looking around to decide what you want to do with your life.
Impresses the hell out of me. And I have just described the lucky life of your average teen because you have options and opportunity because of the paycheck.
I think this question is a put-on but it is still an opportunity to help all the other teens out there who are saying the same thing about their life.

Answer 2

You are kidding about being ugly right? I know I know you want ppls attention...and some praises :)
I dont see any unibrow,,but if it still bothers you,just pluck out few hair from middle...so that it doesnt look connected,as u think.
nobody is born smart,,we make ourselves smart by education,,knowledge,,byt interacting with people.
Life seems boring right....they why dont you set some goals,,watever you like...it can a a small goal like making a table..or a big goal ,,of becoming something.
And it really helps being religious,,,it give peace n contentment. It all about mind games...YOu can a the happiest person without having anything OR the saddest person even with everything.
Have a Positive mind.
Everything happens for good,and whatever doesnt happen,,happenes for good too.

Answer 3

First off, stop feeling sorry for your handsome self
Second off, if you get a pair of tweezers, CAREFULLY take the few hairs only in the middle off
Thirdly, I, too am way the hell away from my family. You are human. You will adjust. And you will find friends who will become a second family-just stay open to new experiences
Four-Wait-New experiences does not mean drugs
Fourth-You're smart enough to reach out and talk about it here, and the armed forces will either make you or break you. I have strong feeling about it, so I'll leave that alone
And lastly, you ever hear that saying "this, too, shall pass"? You are just starting out. You're young, handsome, and the world is yours when it's time.
Remember:Late bloomers are the best bloomers;-)

Answer 4

I live in a 3rd world country----i see a LOT of people daily in worse shape than you.
You can slowly get rid of the uni-brow by getting some tweezers and just pluck out 4-5 hairs every few days, if you are worried about your parents noticing.
It's not surprising that you are depressed after a move; life probably really seems to suck for you right now. Having to move as a teen can be really disruptive.
Try to focus on the future, rather than right now. Think about the job opportunities you can look into after you finish school, for instance. If your school is big enough to have guidance counsellors, really put one to work for you helping you with post-school options for jobs, training, or higher education.

Answer 5

Ok mate you really have a self esteem problem.
Ugly? lol. You dont know ugly till you see ugly. Try adding 80 kgs to your body, losing half of ur hair, add a terrible skin condition and maybe a few nasty looking burns on your face. Thats ugly. You are in no way ugly.
You say u moved away from ur family and friends, right? so whats stopping you from making new ones? You are. Its not that you dont have a life, its that you dont want to have one. As long as you see yourself as a victim, so will the ones around you. If you feel like ****, then everyone sees you as such. Drop this attitude. Try looking ahead. Adopt some sense of humor. Life is much better when you face it with humor and a smiling face.
You say god wanted you to be born so u can live a damn horrible life, right? Well mate, if god exists i dont think he cares enough to consider your role in life. So dont fret over it. Its up to you to get over it and you only.
Chin up

Answer 6

You ain't fooling me! I see that smirk/smile on your face. Your supposed to move out of the house around age 18-20 and make life on your own! Yes, go join army, see to it they pay your rent and feed you and stick out training. They then help pay for your college tuition, so you don't have to be a grocery stocker boy the rest of your life.

PS tweezers and laser hair remove work for unwanted hairs on the body.

As long as you got your legs to walk you around and your arms and hands work, you got better than the person trapped in the wheelchair.

Answer 7

I do not believe in luck.

I believe in opportunity and will-power.

Choose some goals and begin to work toward them. You will begin to see how much you have and what you can do. Do not look at the lack of looks, fame, or fortune but rely on your inner-strength along with some guiding hands of others to move forward in your life with a positive attitude. The future is yours - take hold of it and make it happen.

Answer 8

about the ugly thing???ur wrong.
and my husband has a unibrow. i don't think theres anything wrong with it.
make new friends and keep in touch with the old ones
not smart? neither am i and I'm going to college. I'm so dense i make stupid look smart!!!
start a new life!
you have no idea what unlucky is? trust me you aren't!

Answer 9

first off, maybe you should get closer to God..saying the Lord's name in vain is unforgivable! maybe if you dont work everyday of the week you would be able to get together with your friends instead of "not having a life." and lastly, im sure there is some girl out there for you!

Answer 10

We who grew up in a time of war and chaos,massacres ,we who learned under the sky of rockets and city under siege learned one thing:"Just fight,the war is not over jet!".I didn't understand it till now. actual that all fight and war is your life.You just need to go forward and step over anything in your way. You will be how you wanna to be,and you will be ugly as long as you say that you're ugly.Eyes forward,finish school,and change your attitude to yourself first!