my new guy n i usually use condoms, but recently we did it without..but..i'm on the contraceptive pill :-)
he was convinced i would get pred...he has 4 kids off a previous rship and said he has super-sperm lol...anyway i'm not preg, but he said what would i do if i was...i said i would keep the baby...he agreed..i then contemplated abortion to see how he would react..he said "no u cant do that"....
what does that sound like to you? hes spoke about givin me kids b4...something like i'm the girl he woulda had his kids with,.,.
2006-11-29 23:15:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i'm not planning 2 get preg my whole life is ahead of meh...but what does this say about him...we use condoms
2006-11-29 23:16:25 · update #1
oh, they're all off one woman..and he takes em to and fro school...i think hes a good daddy but thats as far as i can see...thanx 4 the comments people
2006-11-29 23:21:10 · update #2
I think he just wants to spread his lil seed everywhere.. does he financially support his kids? If so WOW 4 would be alot to pay. Can he afford to have another to support? I would stay on the pill and force him to use condoms. You don't want to be a single mother and not get any financial support from him.. Be careful..
2006-11-29 23:20:14 · answer #1 · answered by GirlWithQuestions 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They are ignorant enough to believe that by keeping their children in the dark, they are protecting them. What they don't realize is that they are ultimately inciting their own self-fulfilling prophecy; children will learn about sex no matter what parents do and it's much safer for them to go into it with knowledge of what can happen than with no clue as to the precautions they must take. Many parents don't realize that no matter how hard they push, how many things they take away, how long they try and hide the truth from their children - their kids will still try and do what they want to when their parents aren't looking. It's their job as the guardian to educate them well enough so that when/if they DO try things, they do so in a safe manner.
2016-05-23 04:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all he has 4 kids already and I dont think he needs anymore he is not even with them. Do not get preg. matter of fact I think you should get a new boyfriend. But that is just me. If you two end up getting married or something you already have 4 step children so you do not need to worry about babies. LOL
2006-11-29 23:19:39 · answer #3 · answered by Virginia B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was trying to see if you would be receptive to getting pregnant. I'd keep taking your pill and make sure he can't tamper with it like he could a condom. That conversation alone should be a red flag.
He's equating the fantasy of spreading his seed as being a man and he got it backwards. Any dick can make a kid but it takes a MAN to raise one.
You should send him on his merry way while you have the chance he's got FOUR already!!
2006-11-29 23:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by Cybrocupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he thinks the more children he has with the more women, the more manly he is. Not to be negative, but I know other guys like this and for some reason they do not feel male or manly enough unless they have at least one baby under 2 all the time.
2006-11-29 23:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by Star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be care full with this guy you don't want to be the next girl he has baby's with and leaves behind, ask your self do you think hes going to stick around long enough to raise kids with you. don't let him trap you that way, And if he thinks that its so easy just to have an abortion, then that alone should sound off alarms.
good luck
2006-11-29 23:23:26 · answer #6 · answered by Lara <:(((>< 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love these guys who are moral hero's at your expense. He walks around with his pants on his shoe tops and demands you not have an abortion.
Abortion is reason for "Freedom of Choice" thats YOUR choice, not his. Tell him the sex will continue after he marries you and see how fast he can run with his pants down:)
2006-11-29 23:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by Nort 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me this man needs to get his balls cliped so he don't have anymore kids to spread around... When your ready to have kids you'll know it ...
Never rely on a man to make a desion on what is going
Just remember its your body , He really has no say
2006-11-29 23:19:20 · answer #8 · answered by BitchBox 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like one of a string of women he wants to give kids to, then move on...
He sounds like he is trying to prove something by having loads of kids...
It is your body, do as you see fit...
2006-11-29 23:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many guys will ask you to have their baby, and once you do, they move on. Be careful! Let him know that when you have a baby, you want to be married.
2006-11-29 23:17:38 · answer #10 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋