in our society we believe that arranged marriagwes will not fail but many diverse cases we hear see thru media and read in news papers. similarly love d once also fail so I want to know which type of marriages are more successful?? or it is better not to marry. pl advice.
2006-11-29 22:52:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
definitely arranged one and reason you have Seniors above you to find about the nature and family background of girl or boy you are going to merry and when you have young men and women under the influence of Seniors they have very high level of resistance to petty or serious things which come across life.and on other hand when you have men and women with perverted vision of lust and attachment as bondage and they feel so alone and insulted by any unforeseen circumstance, then they cross all the boundaries of relationship, and result in DIVORCE. So blessing of Seniors is always suggested.
2006-11-29 23:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by dubai chaser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, I am married for 3 years now and I've done love+arrange marriage. If you want real advise then I want to say that all depends on tuning, nature and understanding of man & woman who want to get married. Mostly its the belief in our society that love marriages are often gets failed and I think that's because of hasty, emotional and unrealistic decisions but if you both will think and decide something properly about your future life then love marriage isn't bad. Ultimately and finally it depends on you two people how to live your life together with love, understanding and likelihood then any way you get married.
2006-11-30 07:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by Aakash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arranged marriages in places like India and the islamic countries are usually not marriages of choice but by parents forthe sake of gifts.
In indai when the dowery payments form the brides parents run out usually the bride has an accident with her kerosine stove and gets burned to death. Under Islam she is just stuck in the back room wearing a veil for life, and her master , (owner) marries aanother to replace her. With age she become a servent.
2006-11-30 06:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the character of the persons getting married. If both have a good character it wont fail be it arranged or love. If one have a good and other have a bad character there is 50% - 50% cahances to fail be it arranged or love. If both have a bad character it will surely fail. Now u decide of what character u r
2006-11-30 06:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by rajesh m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will depend upon the married couples. Marriage is like a plant that has to be nurtured in either arranged or love marriages .
2006-11-30 10:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi my name is bala and I'm from Bangalore 22 m
i think better to not marry in life, if u can control itself i think u got what I'm saying.. k...if u cant control just go for love mar rage true love u both of should know about ursel all things and should share thir feelings just know every thing about her background about her past .. in arrange marriage u have been not known about her about past and she wont share after marriage what know she may had a relation with someone
This is my suggestion bala
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2006-11-30 07:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by balaknath b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is best think to do & u have to go with that. the matter is that if u have girlfriend & u love her so much then u will go for love marriage. u want love someone then go for arrange marriage. both have different ways but same destination.
2006-11-30 14:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by RAJ 4 U always 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arranged if you want to marry only one time in life.Love marriage is better if you want to change your partner whenever you fall in love with somebody else,which will happen number of times in your life time.
2006-12-02 19:30:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arrange marriages are much more successful, devorce rate in love marriages are 60%.
2006-12-01 11:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by Krishna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMO it's better not to marry people....unless both are really really really into each other (i.e love + ultimate best friends).
As for arranged marriages, especially forced, I really despise.
2006-11-30 07:05:50 · answer #10 · answered by The other one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋