My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE HASNT CONTACTD ME SINCE 15DAYS. WILL SUCH A GUY TRY TO CONTACT OR TEXT MESG ME AGAIN
2006-11-29 22:42:08 · 17 answers · asked by ciendriella 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I agree that you should keep copies of all the messages and also your phone bill showing when you received the messages.
Gee, I wonder how many other girls he's been with while he's been calling you a prostitute?? Hmmmmmmm. He's a moron and he's sick as well. Don't let him know you're scared of him anymore because that's what he wants. His sick twisted mind thrives on it. You are very smart to be afraid of him but don't let him know it. Take those text messages and phone bill down to the courthouse and get a restraining order. You never know when those threats will turn into physical violence.
2006-11-29 23:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by Georgia Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,i know it's a serious issue,he was abviously a wrong choice but the problem is that the consequences are still there,he keeps abusing u and sending u whenever he wants!such a guy WOULD send u again in my opinion,u should make it clear to him that he doesn't own u if he thinks he does,and that he's ur EX-bf now,so if u have to- i say- CHANGE your phone number and be careful to whom u give to so he won't be able to know it and send u his abusive text messages.
if u have someone who is older than u in ur family whom u can trust,tell him about ur problem and they may help u stop getting scared.he can't do anything to harm u be sure.
one more thing,don't listen to what he calls u,u know u are a good person,don't believe him ,he just wants to destroy your self respect okay?
i hope i could help u dear
God Bless you
2006-11-29 23:14:04 · answer #2 · answered by Legend85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really like the term "Abuse" don't you? Are you sure you are being honest with yourself as to what abuse really is? You never mentioned you didn't want to hear from him anymore, sounds like you need to make that clear to him.
My guess is this kid is just a punk and needs to be kept away from you. Tell him to stay away and not contact you. If he DOES contact you, call the Cops.
2006-11-29 22:53:21 · answer #3 · answered by leothecomm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told your parents- if this matter has become so serious? are you waiting for him to abuse you again? Complain about all this to someone whom you can trust. It's good that he misunderstood you to be dancing with another guy- you could atleast know his true colors. even if all this had never happened, I'm sure that your relationship with him wouldn't have lasted long. Ignore him. Just try to forget the matter thinking that all this happened for the best.
2006-11-29 22:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by Dixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As The Sage said, change your mobile number. I would even be inclined to show the Police if you feel threatened, keep the messages so you can use as evidence if need be. Just keep away from him and dont even respond to those messages. No one deserves that kind of treatment and it's good that you have really seen his true colours.
Peace be with you.
2006-11-29 22:58:50 · answer #5 · answered by *JC* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
na he wont contact u if u stop txting him "by accident" im against him abusing u but u sound like a bit of a slag anyway! theres a true movie quote that says "The first time someone calls you a horse you punch him on the nose, the second time someone calls you a horse you call him a jerk but the third time someone calls you a horse, well then perhaps it's time to go shopping for a saddle." i.e if there all saying ure bad u probably are u sound it! Obviously he sounds worse coz abusing u is out of the question but u shouldnt exactly be dancin with other blokes
2016-05-23 04:33:28 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that the guy is a ******* pig and was probably just jealous when he saw u dancing with another dude. if u dint want him to keep abusing u tell the cops. or get some tough guys to bash him up a bit. or if ur toough do it yourself. i feel good when i bash the crap out of someone who has been annoying me.
2006-11-29 22:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by sab08star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a charmer. for god's sake stay away from this guy. do not contact him. If he contacts you and abuses you again get a restraining order. he sounds dangerous and horrible, and in no way respectful of you. you deserve someone who you can feel safe and laugh with, someone who nourishes you and helps you be the best you can be. good luck. x
2006-11-29 22:49:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first off I have to say your mutilation of the English language saddens me. Second off and quite seriously this guy is sick if he's really abusing you as often as you say, change you phone number and get a restraining order. I'm dead serious. Do it, this isn't healthy.
2006-11-29 22:45:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you really need to get rid of this guy and stay away from him. Don't know how old you are, but if you are young, go to your parents and tell them about the abuse, they will know what to do.
2006-11-29 22:45:37 · answer #10 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋