i've been dating this girl for about 3 months now. she is a cutie and a nice one too. but for some reason i can't convince myself to continue dating her. not sure if its cause she is too nice or i don't know how to react to someone actually being their for me. what do you think should i continue or end it now? i notice that she is getting too close to me and i don't want to hurt her..
2006-11-29 22:34:08 · 8 answers · asked by gocash26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you don't want to hurt her, then dump her now as apposed to later.
2006-11-29 22:37:59 · answer #1 · answered by redbull_photo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice and cute is hard to come by these days. Just be honest with her about your feelings & maybe u 2 can slow things down. Eventually your feelings may grow for her, if that's the type of girl that u are attracted to. If not, get out now and spare her feelings. At least she will know how u feel and can decide if she wants to stay around or flee. But like the old saying goes, "u dont miss a good thing til it's gone!"
2006-11-29 22:45:06 · answer #2 · answered by jlicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On my own opinion you should continue dating her and to have relationship with her,don't be afraid to love someone and be love in return,and what you had said you had notice that she is getting close to you now,don't you think that if you suddenly stop it don't you think she will not be hurt and confues that why all of sudden you had change.Be open to her explain to her your doubts about yourself atleast she will have the knowledge for your ways and reaction towards her or in if case ypu will both decide to have a relationship more than dating each other.
2006-11-29 22:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by kimy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you need to decide if it's your heart, mind or instinct that is pushing you away from such a lovely girl. If your just not feeling it then be honest with her. But maybe you're thinking about it too much or afraid of being close to somebody...I don't know but if you really don't think you can deal with this situation then you gotta do what you gotta do.
Best of luck to you
2006-11-29 22:43:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you know what you really want out of life, If she is a nice girl as you say, then you might be looking for a harder conquest! Some one who will give you the run around and take you for a sucker! Just like you are doing! Wake-up! my friend or is it grow-up?
2006-11-29 22:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
too nice? trust me buddy, the ones that seem wild,exciting,cool,etc,, most of them are goona end up burning you, maybe your just not used a woman actually caring. If you feel that you need drama then don't drag her on though.I'm sure there is a guy out there that would like her nice ways if you feel its not your style.
2006-11-29 22:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by godzilla99s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are really sure about what you feel then continue. but if not better stop it before its too late. girls can go crazy when hurt.
2006-11-29 22:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by castroville 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love.
CONTINUE!
2006-11-29 22:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by Sabakuno Gaara 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋