For months I being ridiculed and laughed at by people for reasons I don't even know. There'll be good months when they will stop picking on, but then there is the bad months when they'll just snub and ridicule me.
This isn't what I want my life to be. I don't want to keep enduring only to discover that I am at their mercy the next. I can not stand it anymore. Should I just end my life? Its just eating at me that they seems to have some secret that they're holding against me and I doon't dare to ask them why they're laughing at me.
2006-11-29 22:33:01 · 11 answers · asked by MoJoJoJo 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Go talk to someone now! A parent, friend, family member, someone who cares for you. Have someone else to help share your burden. I am sorry for how you have been treated, and I DO understand, believe me. But you must realize that such people are hurting themselves, and therefore they will hurt people.
You seem like you have a pure and tender heart. Don't take it so much to heart. People need you!
2006-11-29 22:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by bandit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever considered that maybe they are after your attention - that maybe there is a gap in their lives and for some reason they see some strength in you they lack - maybe if you plucked up the courage and asked them what they're laughing at - they'll tell you and/or even stop laughing at you as well?
It's definitely not worth killing yourself over - if it is as bad as all that - then go - move - go somewhere else - unless you are elephant man I think you'll find the situation is resolveable without snuffing out your existence !
2006-11-29 22:42:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Friend - Your words concern me very much. What words are they using when they ridicule you...this would be a clue. I think though that you should try seeing a doctor. We all have good times and bad times, but to feel that people are laughing and ridiculing you this way is not normal and could indicate that you have an illness of some kind. GBY
2006-11-29 22:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by Dust in the Wind 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you need to endure?
try asking why they laugh at you. ask a family member, or a friend, or someone who cares. there must be someone. the reason may not be that bad, maybe its something you can willingly improve on. take criticisms as challenges, why are you backing down without a fight??
and there is also a possibilty that youre just being paranoid, maybe theyre not really laughing AT YOU.
take things lightly - you wont know if theres a brighter future if you wont wait for it.
best of luck.
2006-11-29 22:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by rinkumi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, interesting answers as to whether or not your motives are candid. in "people," do you mean women as well? alexander dumas fils said once, in his Lady of the Camellas, that women love to gossip and rant about a new man, it is their revenge for being under the clutches of the men they see every day.
read books you prick. start with great books of the western world. my holy trinity is Camus, Ayn Rand, and Aldous Huxley.
get involved with chemistry and calculus on up, talk to any soul that would be able to enlighten you on the schrodinger equations. learn french german and chinese. collect portratis of famous people in history- or not so famous famous. i like the marquis de montcalm during the french and indian war (7 years) war. find your favorite archetypes, personified in literature, cinema, or television....
find that the best way to bring a person over to your camp. and remember, that to you at the moment, you may feel the need to know people- who they are, what they do, but remember mathematics is our sole salvation- based off of that, you can do many 'a wonderous thing.
2006-11-29 22:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by Lawrence Boyer,edinboro univ, pa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need professional help immediately. My son has Paranoid schizophrenia and has medication to control it. What is happening is all in your mind and not real. I know it feels real but believe me it's not. People are not talking about you behind your back. The medication will put all this in the context it should be and you'll be fine but only if you get the help. Please do it, your important in this world.
2006-11-29 22:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you give up, they win. DON'T give up!!!
Also think about the people that love you and what they would lose if you topped yourself!
People won't laugh at you forever! If you put your mind to it, You will achieve something one day that would earn respect that would outweigh the mockery you endured.
And when you do, you'll be grateful that you didn't give up!
2006-11-29 22:40:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This would be depressing and feel you should go to your regular MD he can refer you to a good shrink, Then he can give you some meds that will help you over this crisis. Be sure and tell both Doctors you feel suicidal.
2006-11-29 22:56:18 · answer #8 · answered by lonetraveler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't! nothing is ever worth you ending your life essepcially not other peoples stupidity. Surly you have friends and family who care about you immensly! You should talk to someone...not on yahoo!answers maybe your parents or friends...Just someone. Don't call it quits.
2006-11-29 22:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
please seek help. asking questions here is great, but you need to talk to someone face to face.
you don't say if you are in school or an adult. if you are in school talk to your parents, school councilor, or some other adult that you trust. if you are an adult there are help hot lines that you can call.
whatever the problem is it's only temporary (i know that it feels like it will never end). don't give up.
i will keep you in my thoughts.
2006-11-29 22:46:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋