I'd sex wit my bf after2yrs of lov.I trusted him so much and considred him as my husband and sacrificed many things for him.He said he had all kind of diseases& got my sympathy.Later came2 know he was cheat.Every minute he has told a lie to me.He also had relationship with other girls.I stopped all my contacts from him after knowing he was a cheat.but my doubts are,does it mean he din lov me at all?shld i compromise2him and marry him,as i've lost my virginity to him?How can I cheat another person by marrying him when I'm not pure?plzzz help guys and gals?What shld I do?How to make my future life happy by not hurting anyone?
2006-11-29 22:30:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You consider "purity" essential for someone to marry you??? Jeez, how backward!!!
He was scum and a jerk, avoid him like the plague!!!
2006-11-29 22:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i incase u havnt realised yet but there is no such thing as love it is a made up fairytale thing day by day more and more people are realising it which is why last year 69% of marriages ended in divorce god knows what it is this year, we are the only species that does marriage and love ect, and you must remember that we havnt always had marriage and love it was made at at some point in time meaning that it isnt realy, animals dont fall in love..... because its all bollocks, the sooner you realise that the better, these days the only reason people are together is because they dont want to die alone, sooner or later u will always get fed up of the person you are with coz there really is no such thing as love u have to ask yourself the question if nobody told you about love, what it is ect. would you still fall in love??? course you wouldnt coz its not real same as gay people if gay was never made up by some "out of the box thinker" it wouldnt exsist there wouldnt be gay people, because our minds are so into deep thinking ect we question alot of things we hear about which is why u get people thinking "hold on maybe i am gay" and get people becoming gay or u get people thinking"hold on maybe i am in love" just because some philosopher at one stage invented these stupid things that arent real or natural because if they were they would happen naturally but they dont they happen because of our environment that we live in! sorry for the essay! lol but its a true fact
2006-11-29 22:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by jay a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard question to answer but the answer itself is, yes he stole your virginity but in this day and age things like that happen, the problem is with your bf you cannot trust him and you do not want to go into a relationship without trust. Any future husband will look at this and if you are honest should respect your decision
2006-11-29 22:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by paki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you need to suffer more after what he did to you. he may have loved you (giving him the benefit of the doubt) but if he still doesnt stop what he is doing then your feelings doesnt mean to him. about your plan of marrying him because you gave up your virginity on him - that is a bigger mistake. it's already the 21st century where women are more liberated and men do not give much importance on marrying a girl who is still a virgin. i know because my husband did not put much importance on what had happend to me in the past. cheer up! stand up and move one with your head high.
2006-11-29 22:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by z0e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heyy !!
loads of people make mistakes and you are not impure !!
many people who get married are not virgins !! find someone who will respect you for who you are !
dont continue this with this guy ! he has cheated you before and who noes he may cheat you again !
plss leave him its not safe to be with him !
liers and cheats hav no place in a wedlock !
take care
all the best
2006-11-29 22:41:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's your fault at all . . .because you've sexed with him, where in fact, you're not yet married. . . you still don't have the assurance if he would stay with you after having sex with him. . .and it's guy's nature to fool girls. . . and they only want to taste you. . . hmm. . but the greatest thing i could tell you is. . fight for your rights girl . . go and get him back . . . but not to the extent that you would loss your 100% pride. . . 50% would do . . .
2006-11-29 22:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by cRiSsShHhH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋