I dont think i could ever be faithful! Is this a bad thing?

Question

I could cheat and have cheated on my girlfriend! She has never found out, even if she did i bet she would forgive me! Yeah i might get a black eye but it would be worth it! You criticise me for being a cocky selfish tw#t but she knows what im like i dont hide the way i am! Maybe its her fault for being soft and letting me get away with murder! But then again i wouldnt be with her if she wasnt like this! If there are women like this then there are gonna be men like me! I click my fingers and she is by my feet, i find it funny! I dont love her but she thinks i do, would you love me? So she is the crazy one then wouldnt you agree? We live together and i can still get away with playing away, it makes me laugh at how easy she falls for my lies!

Coley god your sexy xxxx

Answer 1

Some women are just needy little morons you do it cause she lets you and why not?You need a real woman..... that would soon make you keep it in your pants."CLICK" now on the floor theres a good boy :)

Answer 2

I am so glad you explained yourself and how funny you find the fact that your girlfriend loves you, how funny you find the amount of times she forgives you and is willing to give you a second chance. I will keep this in mind the next time my boyfriend tries to pull a fast one.

The thing is, have you never thought of WHY your girlfriend lets you get away with 'murder'? It's probably because she is playing away herself and she needs you go pay half the rent/ mortgage. I cannot understand why else she would put up with a "cocky, selfish tw#t" like you.

Answer 3

Well, you have just stated a sequence of actions. What I often find more interesting is the person behind such behaviours. A behaviour can not be inherently bad or good, but the person's decisions can. She might be suffering from a weak personality, and since you always go for that type, based on what you said yourself, you are fearful of strong women as they will challenge your perceived prowess. That you need to reaffirm this prowess by sleeping with as many women as you can, in itself is a clear declaration of cowardice. If you are OK with being a coward, then fine, there is no good or bad about it, go ahead and continue your pattern of sleeping around and having weak women as your partner just for that extra ego polish. If on the other hand you decide that there might be a time when you need to grow up, then post another message and check out the replies. Regards!

Answer 4

Its not a problem if she is happy being in an open relationship. Hiding it from her and being deceitful is only going to lead to pain - most likely on her part.

Thats not a nice way to treat a woman now is it?

Many say we reap what we sow so you should think about how to treat people a little more fairly.

If you are really like this over the longer term then you should find someone similar that doesn't mind palying around either.

Answer 5

I think admitting the fact that you can not be faithful is not a problem if you know it then do not be in a relationship. Let your girlfriend go. She is going to be so hurt in the end and that is not funny. If you want to be a player that is fine but just let anyone know that you get involved with know that you are not in it for love just for fun.. You should feel very bad that you do not love her and lead her on like you do. Move out and let her get a real life with someone that will love her. Sounds like you are just in the relationship to have someone there to clean and cook for you. Maybe you should move back home with mommy because it does not sound like you are grown up enough to be on your own.

Answer 6

It sounds like you're not even trying to be faithful, and you get a kick out of telling lies to your girl. Have you ever thought that she might truly love and care about you? Have you no conscious and no concern for her at all? The best thing you can do is remain single - don't get married and when you do date, make sure the other person knows that it's an open arrangement. But I have a feeling for the majority of your life, you will be begging woman to go out with you - and they'll be saying no. And that makes me very glad!

Answer 7

thats completely ******* fine!!!! its against all nature to be faithfull its a made up thing for **** sake!! i incase u havnt realised yet but there is no such thing as love it is a made up fairytale thing day by day more and more people are realising it which is why last year 69% of marriages ended in divorce god knows what it is this year, we are the only species that does marriage and love ect, and you must remember that we havnt always had marriage and love it was made at at some point in time meaning that it isnt realy, animals dont fall in love..... because its all bollocks, the sooner you realise that the better, these days the only reason people are together is because they dont want to die alone, sooner or later u will always get fed up of the person you are with coz there really is no such thing as love u have to ask yourself the question if nobody told you about love, what it is ect. would you still fall in love??? course you wouldnt coz its not real same as gay people if gay was never made up by some "out of the box thinker" it wouldnt exsist there wouldnt be gay people, because our minds are so into deep thinking ect we question alot of things we hear about which is why u get people thinking "hold on maybe i am gay" and get people becoming gay or u get people thinking"hold on maybe i am in love" just because some philosopher at one stage invented these stupid things that arent real or natural because if they were they would happen naturally but they dont they happen because of our environment that we live in! works for all religion too! naive people cant see this tho. sorry for the essay! lol but its a true fact

Answer 8

You may think you are getting by with this but believe me,,one day she will find out and if she loves you like I believe she does then you will see what you sowed...I think that is when you will see how destroyed she will be...What I dont understand is if you guys dont want to be faithful, then why have a girlfriend..Would you let her or like for her to do to you what you are doin to her??? How sad this is for she is probably a wonderful young lady and the reason she isnt stopping you is cuz like you said,,she dont know...You say you dont hide the way you are,,yet you are being dishonest to her..So she dont know how you are..She is not your slave she is a human being with feelings...None of this is her fault..Men are always sayin they want women who will trust them,,,when they get women who do trust them then they go and cheat...And we wonder why there are so many in depression...This is so sad...To break a heart of a woman who seems to truly love you and you cant repay her for that...She will find out because when you least expect it,,someone that knows you and her will show her...Is like she has to be the way you want her to be to be with you yet you can treat her with such disrespect...I dont know how old you both are,,but I will pray for you both..You for guidance to grow and be a true man and for her to protect her heart...

Answer 9

What exactky are you asking & is this a question or a self essay in self praise that you are The Master ???
Remember, what goes round comes round. What if in Future you find a girl whom you immensely love, is unfaithful to you. Have the moral courage to tell your GF that you don't love her. That moral courage can come from a man with character not some one like you. Try to change that.
You seem to be young, try being mature.

Answer 10

i think u should remember the old saying what goes around comes around.i bet she thinks u love her because you say that you do.and the fact that you are playing around on her instead of breaking up means u have some feelings for her too.i mean isn't it easier to be single and do the things your doing.and not hurt someone who is as you say at your feet?be careful there will be a day when you r at a girls feet and it will suck because u will always wonder if she is laughing at you .

Answer 11

Now you have even disappointed the Fletch! This isn't a nice way to be, leave her and save her the misery. That's a really awful thing to do, and a really horrible way to treat someone. if you are not capable of treating her nicely then don't be with her, surely she doesn't deserve that. If i was her I'd rip your balls off! She's probably doing the dirty on you anyway...