Well weve been seeing each other now for 3 years, she loves me like crazy! I think we should just get married everyone around us says we should! I mean it is the next step, plus it would mean i had more control over her right?
2006-11-29 21:39:34 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sending Llama to see you, i think you need a male role model in your life! He will be with you at 6pm tonight! sent
2006-11-30 18:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by fletch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
control over her no! just remember (and I don't think, purely by reading your question that you are very old) when u get married it should be for love and for potentially ever, unfortunately statistics prove otherwise, next step after a failed marriage is divorce, and over that you will have no control, everything will be split 50-50, and maybe more in her favour if you have children, also any woman will eventually run from a control freak! nobody needs to be in control, you work everything half and half, time out, house maintenance and cleaning , cooking, control is a very nasty word, and i fear it will get u nowhere, except in a divorce court yesterday, and believe me women get alot of respect in a place like that and you would end up with not an awful lot! get married coz you want to and on the basis if it went wrong you don't mind sharing at least half of what you have accumulated
2006-11-30 06:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by manx girl Isle of Man. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The idea of marriage is great if you are both seriously in love. I am confused about you saying having more control over her. She is an individual and shouldn't need to be "controlled" at all. If she truly loves you, she will more than likely be loyal to you, as you would be to her. Marriage is all give and take and one has to trust the other completely.
2006-11-30 05:44:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in the world are you talking about control over her. You do not have control over anyone married or not. I really do not think you should get married let her go on with her life and find a nice man. Not one that ask stupid questions like should I get married that would mean I have more control over her. Get real...........................................
2006-11-30 07:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by Virginia B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not get married if you want more control over her, where is the commitment, respect and trust gone when you say your sacred vows doesn't that mean all the above.
2006-11-30 07:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are taking the p*ss right?
Y would u want control over someone...? Are u insecure???????
U don't just marry someone cos 'it's the next step', u do it cos u want to spend the rest of your life with the one u love....
2006-11-30 05:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
More control, what are you - some sort of idiot? You don't have any control over your girlfriend, and you'll have even less control over your (potential) wife.
She allows you to think that you're in control, but she's the one pulling the strings - even if you don't realise.
2006-11-30 05:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by mark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don`t get married because you SHOULD or because everyone EXPECTS YOU TO.
You get married because you WANT to share something special with the person next to you, regardless of the others` opinion and expectations.
2006-11-30 05:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by DarkChoco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you know what answers you will get after you mentioned the "control thing". Trying to control a woman is like trying to give a cat a bath. If she is used to it she will tolerate it but most likely will try to escape.
2006-11-30 05:43:14 · answer #9 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 years is pretty long for a courtship per say, u may not have had marriage in mind before now, but since uve got so much love for her and vice versa, go ahead and marry her ok......... good luck
2006-11-30 06:21:43 · answer #10 · answered by chi i 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋