Best way to deal with person and situation opposite of your likings?

Question

We often face persons and situations which take out our inner energy and contributes nothing positive rather makes us depressed, tensed and exhausted out of energy to go further. Wanting a practical type solution

Answer 1

OK unless this is a spouse(if it is...hopefully it won't come down to it but; I would suggest--get a good lawyer)
Simple..you would like to know best way 2 deal w/ a specific someone that you are totally opposite of; right? Well; my suggestion would be 2 ask that person how they deal w/ you; because apparently they're in the same situation. LOL. I realize that sounds like a joke; but really it is a thought. First of all; don't stress over something like this; come back down here to the real world with the rest of us....where every1's different and every1 has 2 deal w/ that everyday in 1 way or another. If that's the biggest stress in your life...I'd love 2 borrow your life 4 awhile. LOL...good luck

Answer 2

Meeting unpleasant people is sometimes part of our job; we can not change that, however we can find certain ways to cope with them...Best thing i guess: let a person know you don't like his ( her ) ways immediately. There is a chance, her attitude will change...If that doesn't happen try to let him (her) know you are just a human being after all and politely explain you don't want to communicate that ( unpleasant ) way ! There's always a way to communication, all you have to do is; be patient; you should remain as calm and unobtrusive as possible !

Answer 3

You can NEVER change someone else. You can only change yourself.

Stressful situations are stressful to you because of how YOU CHOSE TO REACT TO THEM.

When you feel yourself getting angry or upset, mentally tell yourself, "STOP!"

Step back, assess the situation and think of how you can handle it constructively.

Force yourself to practice this until you no longer need to force it but it becomes second nature to you.

As an aside, there is no one so wise that they cannot learn something from someone else. If they are as wise as they think themselves, they will see it. Learn to look for what you think of as negative people have to teach you. You might be surprised.

Answer 4

firstly ignore then try to know why you dont like that person and analyse can you improve it by expecting less from people.

As far as undesired situations is concerned you can avoid them very easily just by being bit alert and sober.

Answer 5

the communication skill of you.
Have faith in you and have to decide what role u are going to make in that relationship. Like it is professional or persoal.
If u want to make professional relationship then u hv to like what he/she likes.
if u wnat to make personnal then things are lil tricky.
U hv to b very patient and try to understand what -ve thinking he/she has for your likeing and try to avoid discussing the topics he/she dislikes in start but gradualy try to give +ve points of ur liking and i m sure he/she would try to give a look into it.

Answer 6

Patience plays a vital role. added with Perseverance the combination is always going to work..

Answer 7

Practically......u may become his/her partner. Its destiny....

Solutions are not part of men's job. u can never find a solution. solutions are usually given to u...

Answer 8

Best way is to avoid them and if u can't ignore them.

Answer 9

Just listen stay quiet do not react

Answer 10

the best way to deal with a person who is always opposite to our likings is to do things which they like and get adjusted them and to please them always.