Every time my friend and I go out drinking,and I see a nice looking female, then make a comment to the effect that I think she's attractive,you can guarantee that within a minute,the said female falls into one of three categories with my friend,i.e.
1. "I think she fancies me!"
2."She's giving me the eye!"
or
3. "She keeps looking at me!"
Why do you think he does this? ..I think he may be on some sort of ego trip. Do you agree?
2006-11-29 21:17:35 · 18 answers · asked by robspursfan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hmmm, it sounds to me like he's just winding you up. Unless he's truly genuine about his delusions, in which case you're probably correct......this is a great opportunity to set him up.
Try saying it about a guy and see what he does......
Or if you can find a fairly attractive girl (that he doesn't know) to play along and join in on his ego trip.....get her to wink and eye him up, say your interested and then when the time is right, she walks over and gives YOU her phone number and quick cheeky kiss!
2006-11-29 21:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by jessieket04 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My friend does that when I see a guy I like.
I think it is an ego thing.
I mean ok my friend and I are pretty different.
I'm 5ft 9 shes about 5ft nothing
I'm not stick thin but I'm not fat either.
She's a size 6 with a huge ****.
A lot of guys llike her and a lot don't.
She never stops going on about how these guys in college "follow her round begging for a date".
It's so sickening as I know only part of what she says is true.
It's all to do with ego.
There's a guy I've liked for ages. He's older than me and she knows I like him.
The other day my friend and I met him in town and while he was looking at me the whole time and flirting with me, (I'm not big on ego but this actually happened) my friend started flirting and tried to take him herself.
She stole a mutual friends boyfriend even though she knew our friend really liked him.
She's always like "oh my god that guy keeps staring at me"
You just have to try an ignore this behaviour and go for the girl you like instead of listening to your friend expand his ego.
2006-11-29 21:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by specs appeal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Typical male..some males are different..some are typical. But yes it's an ego trip.
2006-11-29 21:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by Aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ego trip works but I am along the lines that he is insecure, felling a bit less than you, trying to be up along your guidelines (like you) a wanna be. Or he thinks "He thinks who he is all THAT" (what ever all that is, what they think.)
But I have to put my 2 cents in (what ever that means) Just ignore what he says somewhat, take it with a grain of salt(ha haa haaa another Cliche{stupid}) I really believe that he is insecure and is just trying to build himself up. Be patient, have tolerance and feel sorry for him. You will, I believe be doing good for him in the long run.
You seem to be a good person.
Good Luck Have Fun Be Good
2006-11-29 21:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, okay, you asked for it. My ego fantasy isn't as spectacular as your sex kitten harem, but I find it satisfying, if I could pull it off. I would love to pull a Clint Eastwood on these sleazebag corporate parasites and political jellyfish, giving them till sundown to get out of town. . .or else! I'd love to see them squirm and sweat for a change. I'd love to seize their assets, leave them with only a dirty pair of underwear and a dollar, and take everything else, redistributing their assets to the victimized and needy. These miscreants have been sucking the blood of the working class long enough. If I had the power to do so, I would bring greed and corruption to a screeching halt, with appropriate payback to the guilty.
2016-05-23 04:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep... Some of my girl friends do that to me too....so the ego trip isn't exclusive to guys :)
2006-11-29 21:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by Sunrise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woud not exactly call it an ego trip quite the oppsite actually!!he prob has not much confidence an is just sayin it incase you get dere before him its a classic!!
2006-11-29 21:58:22 · answer #7 · answered by simply B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He likes to think he's so much better than you and is out to make sure that you don't get any of the ladies coz he can't handle his pal having a hot chic and him having nothing. Lose his dumbass - the sun don shine from his ***.
2006-11-29 21:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by Bootilicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he thinks you are better looking then him he is jealous of you in some sort of way and he thinks that if he makes comments like that you won't bother with the girl, ignore him and if you really like a girl go over and talk to her don't let this guy spoil your chance of meeting someone who may make you happy, if he is a good mate he will be happy for you and be polite to the girl
2006-11-29 23:49:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is very self-conscious and needs to reassure himself by suggest to you that the female fancies him... and not you. He psychologically sees you as a threat... so by getting in there first with the comments he is trying to make you feel inferior and not as handsome, masculine etc.
Next time say to him.... "Yes, I think you're right... get yourself over there and chat her up" .... see how brave he is... and if it works, then maybe (and I stress maybe) she does fancy him... but I don't think he will even try.
2006-11-29 21:23:35 · answer #10 · answered by Boring Old Fart 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋