Whats the logic of men marrying a girl who is slim and have maintained an appealing figure? some girls, if not fat, are lil chubby or slightly heavy, y cant in arrranged marriages, men agree happily to marry a girl with this sort of figure?
coz its not necessary tht all girls are heavy just coz they eat alot? there cud be some harmones prob. too..
Good nature is faar batter and far important than just a good figure. and if she is heavy,then later on, u can hlp her to lose weight.
Think abt it guys!
2006-11-29 20:42:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hey hey guys..m not fat m fit n fine... and i exercise to keep myself fit.. but thanz for ure encouragement. i meant it alllGENERALLY..coz tht has become a common phenomena. and yes for me nature matters more than looks.
2006-11-30 05:40:07 · update #1
I can understand your question. This is true to some extent...............esp. incase of arrange marriage.........where girls are rejected due to height, weight and complexion. The reasons are ridiculous which people give…………But I have realized that staying fit is the mantra, not for others but for yourself…………….well it has nothing to do with looking good…….Staying fit is good both internally and externally………………..
2006-11-29 20:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by Sbrown 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not everyone just looks for a slim girl to marry. Mature men look past the size, into the heart, character and personality of the woman. Women do the same with men!
2006-11-29 20:45:26 · answer #2 · answered by Lydia 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If guys thought like women that would be true but they're not ; they're guys .After all is said and done guys are visual creatures. Guys live in a visual world and process information visually .
Therefore when a guy gets sexually turned on by a woman it's because of what he sees. If he likes what he sees he will be turned on and if not he will be turned off.
Now there are some guys out there who like full [ not fat] figured women with natural butts and breasts - me being one of them .But that doesn't change the fact that that the turn on is visual .
There is also another factor; almost nobody not men , nor women gets thinner after they've been married a while . There is that nagging thought in the back of a guys head that says " If she's heavy now what is she going to look like in 10 years ? OMIGOD she's going to look like her mother , i can't have sex with someone that looks like her mother "
2006-11-29 21:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
The fact is that men cannot control what turns them on. If a man doesn't see a women as being attractive, there will be no sex. Men can't control their erections. There is hope for all girls because some men like chubby girls, even though they may not admit it.
2006-11-29 21:27:16 · answer #4 · answered by morris 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There are still guys who see the inner beauty such as your character and your strength rather than the exterior. Though sad to say that many will still choose what's pleasing to their eyes, however, they fail to realise that appearance will change over the years. I believe chubby girls will still have their day cos I have some chubby g/f happily married
2006-11-29 22:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by Choco 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Listen.. I'm a big woman.. I've dated assholes and i've dated great guys...The great thing about me is my confidence and my personality. It shines and makes me look radiant. I'm big, but i believe i'm the sexiest thing walking... To have high self esteem you have to build it. Skinny, fat, tall, petite, chubby women are women. All guys dont look for bones. They like a little cushion, some like alot. Sweetie its all up to you. You have to start wit ur self.. Stop beating urself up for something you cant really control. Especially if it hereditary or genetic.. Do you see how many times Oprah have gained and lost weight.. People love her because she's real and has a great personailty and heart......
2006-11-29 21:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by Cece 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If men married women for the character well most pretty women would die spinster for men its physical that whole talk of beauty on the inside it just a way of boosting the confidence of people who are not attractive.Am not a guy but at least i know that bit of reality.
2006-11-29 20:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by kags 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Argue with Mother Nature all you want. Guys don't have control over what they're attracted to. Just like girls don't have control over the kinds of guys they find attractive. By the way, just because you may not fit the prototype of a perfect physical specimen, that doesn't mean you can't find a great man.
2006-11-29 20:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by halitobro 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
there are plenty of men who like a curvy girl. i never had trouble dating or finding men who found me attractive and i have never been a size 2....so i don't think it is ALL men who are looking for skinny girl.
be yourself as long as you are happy and feel sexy then men will see that and want to know you...if you act all bitter and weird thinking that no one will want you because of a few dangerous curves then that is exactly what will happen....get over it and get on living...
2006-11-29 21:38:41 · answer #9 · answered by never2pink 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course it's BS. If 2/3 of people in the US are overweight or obese, then it would stand to reason that some of them would have to have partners! HTH : )
2006-11-29 22:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋