I love my wife dearly and she's a real sweetie. It's just that, I hate to admit it but... I think I could have a lot of gratification on the side, if you know what I mean. What kind of effect will this have on marriage? Will I actually love my wife less, or will I be able to love her more because I'll be well taken care of?
2006-11-29 19:31:11 · 10 answers · asked by manna eater 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it's not really anything emotional I need. just physical. but on a steady basis. something like a live-in maid would be perfect
2006-11-29 19:40:12 · update #1
If she really loves me, seems like she should want me to do something that makes me so happy, which is to be gratified by other girls. I almost can't understand this contradiction. Like she loves me and wants me to be happy but then I can't do the one thing I want the most.
2006-11-29 19:51:28 · update #2
Why dont you discuss it with your wife. You said that she is a sweetie, work it out with her.
2006-11-29 19:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by manang bruka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be kidding! Having sex with someone who is not your wife will eventually destroy your marriage! How can you love your wife and even think of having sex with someone else?
Sure as a man, I have been tempted, but when you get married you make a decision that you will never have sex with someone else. If your wife found out she will be hurt so much because you betrayed her.
Even if she never found out, the fact that you know what you are doing and have to keep it secret, will put enough tension in your marriage that eventually it will fall apart.
Actually, I hate to say this, but I have a hard time believing that anyone over 12 years old would ask if an affair would make you love your wife more.
2006-11-29 19:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your emotions will be tested to an incredibly high degree. You will be filled with feelings of guilt, maybe to the point of telling her what you've done. You will be filled with an incredibly degree of stress to keep this secret and you may eventually get caught which adds to the incredible stress. You may actually begin to love the other girl more than your wife, and find yourself in a situation where you could loose both women. In the end, you may be filled with incredible pain and grief. I'm not sure if your ready to deal with that kind of unneeded drama.
2006-11-29 19:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cons: Pregnancy, most marriages won't last, pregnancy, sinning, and pregnancy Pros: A 2-2 hour pleasure Overal: Don't do it
2016-03-29 16:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean beside the fact that it would make you a scumbag :), your wife will notice the changes and become suspicious.
2006-11-29 19:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anon Tom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a selfish pig!!!!! firstly think of your wife if she found out, if you cannot get your fantasies with your wife,tell her what you would like to do or get done
2006-11-29 19:36:17 · answer #6 · answered by josie c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are so selfish, and you dont deserve a nice wife.
2006-11-29 20:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go cheat and let her find out,you'll be taken care of alright.
2006-11-29 19:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she'll find out and you wont have the base to your side lmao.. you'l just have your side and you will be missraable.
2006-11-29 19:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by GodWillSaveMe 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you will love your wife less
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2006-11-29 19:34:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋