well here the thing...I have known a girl for quite some time and we have become really good friends...we have shared some time with each other...all her sorrows and the rest..given her support when ever she need it...in a nutshell I have been there for her for basically any thing...and i think she has mistaken my kindness/friendship for love...but well i dont think i got any feelings for her...however she has some times clearly expressed her feelings about me..that she has the hots for me and at the same time kind of even like or i would rather say loves me...in addition to that of lately she wants me to get physical with her...and that also without any commitment to this!!
She finds it fair that we can have a physical relationship to express our emotions and some how release stress as she thinks we are evolving the meaning of friendship by involving sex..
2006-11-29 19:26:03 · 10 answers · asked by rolleingstone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dont let her take advantage of your true friendship..........you seems to be sensible guy................
2006-11-29 20:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by Sbrown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha. Please please don't. As I'm sure you know, people who are in love don't think straight. Regardless of what she says, odds are one of two things.
1. She thinks that if you get intimate, no matter what you said before that you may start to have feelings for her and she'll eventually get you.
or..
2. She thinks she can handle having sex because she wants you physically and *thinks* she can handle it and can enjoy the physical pleasure, and separate the emotional deeper feelings.. but express her friendship emotions at the same time. Sound confusing and impossible. Yup. It is. Trust me.
If she's in love with you it's going to be hard enough to keep your friendship alive, and if you involve sex or even kissing it'll be near impossible. You have to sit that girl down and calmly and nicely tell her how you feel about her, and that you'll always be her friend. So good luck to you both, you're in a not so great situation but hopefully it will turn out okay..
2006-11-29 19:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude. you have issues.
i thinkkkkkk she'sss usinggg youu to get closer.
not to bs your best friend but... you know.
don't do it unless you really want to.
don't do it because she's stressing you to do it either.
tell her why you won't.
i think she's crazy too.
maybe just a little.
wanna hear a joke? just to make you smile maybe?
okay.
how do u make a tissue dance?
YOU PUT A LITTLE BOOGIE INTO IT.
2006-11-29 19:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by indecisive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. It'll just complicate things. Keep your friendship simple. Keep it the way it is. If you do anything more with her, it'll never be the same. Trust me....
2006-11-29 19:55:49 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is tacky -sounds like she it trying to catch you w sex- NO no- you sound like you have too much integrity for that- good for you-D
2006-11-29 19:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her youlike to be her friend, but that you are not ready for a seious commitment
2006-11-29 19:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you don't like her and that you are only friends nd that she must look 4 someone else.
2006-11-29 19:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't give a kiss to her .
2006-11-29 19:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by sarfraj_nadaf_10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's out of her mind.. tell her no!
2006-11-29 19:28:20 · answer #9 · answered by GodWillSaveMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go for it
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2006-11-29 19:31:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋