Ok guys i got a dilemma! I was with this guy had been with him along time well some things happened and we split I got with this other guy about a wk later an old flame we were only together maybe 9 wks! I recently found out i was prego! Is It really possible it could be his if I am 11 wks or more according to my ultrasound? SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME I NEED TO NARROW THIS DOWN!
THANX!
2006-11-29 19:09:18 · 20 answers · asked by sam_afl_mommy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Sounds as it is the baby of the first guy, but only a blood test can clear it up.
2006-11-29 19:12:42 · answer #1 · answered by willow, the yodakitty from hell 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why did you get an ultrasound at 11 weeks? One reason this is done is for uncertain dates, albeit still a little early. The ultrasound will not re-date your gestation in the first trimester unless your dates are uncertain, and/or are way off. What does your LMP date you at? Sorry, but too vague to answer with any certainty. Give more info.
Edit: ok Cariss, the ultrasound accuracy you are expounding is dependant on which trimester the ultrasound is taken. They are most accurate in the 1st trimester, which she clearly is in. Also, LMP, when certain, is more accurate than ultrasound -which is why an u/s will not redate a gestation based on lmp unless the lmp is uncertain.
you should really ask your doctor and not rely on the answers in this forum
2006-11-29 19:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by michalakd 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi there....
Yes, it really honestly could be either guy...I don't know if thats what you want to hear, but it is the truth :(
I just had preemie twins, and due to an irregular lmp I had an ultrasound performed in the first trimester, like yourself (they are considered the most accurate for determining a due date)....However, they are still inaccurate +/- 2 weeks....Additionally, they have been known to be off up to 3 + weeks....My twins were born very prematurely, and the only way we were able to really tell how "off" their gestational age really was by when they were able to suck/swallow...It was off almost 3 weeks...
So you will have to get a DNA test, they can do an amnio but it is dangerous, I would wait...
Sorry, to say, if you need to talk for support there are a lof of parenting/pregnancy groups on Myspace....I'm on their too, feel free to message me!
Hope all works out!!
:)
2006-11-29 19:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by Carriss P 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 00:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. because they start you 40 weeks from the first day of your last period. conception usually happens 2 weeks after that. So if you had sex within I am going to say the firs 5 days of dating then yes it can be his baby, if not then the answer is more than likely its not his baby.
Get a DNA test to be sure.
2006-11-29 19:23:14 · answer #5 · answered by Summer H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The first month of pregnancy includes the two weeks before you conceive,so,If you are 11 weeks pregnant you conceived 9 weeks ago.If you turn out to be more than 11 weeks then It will be the first guy's baby.
2006-11-29 19:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by New Boots. 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Pregnancy is based on the date of your last period. Technically, you are two weeks pregnant before you even have sex. Since you can only get pregnant for the few days around ovulation (usually 12-14 days after you START your period), when you do get pregnant, your date reverts back to the day you started, not the actual date you had sex.
So, YES, you would be 11 weeks pregnant if you had sex 9 weeks ago...that is just how the math works.
If he does not believe you, have the doctor explain it.
2006-11-29 19:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by bashnick 6 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Well it is quite possible, unless of course the court requires you to do some serious testing to find out the accuracy of your story.
You are obviously just yanking our ambilicle cords. Having sex with many partners is cool but if you are going to want to continue you must consider alternative care givers for your fetus such as Doctor Kevorkian, Doctor Frankenstien or even Doctor Ruth Westheimer. aka A killer, a thriller and a piller.
ps Oral sex will not get you pregnant.
2006-11-29 19:17:35 · answer #8 · answered by laxthefacts 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
If you are 11 weeks pregnant that is 11 weeks from the first day of your last period. You most likely conceived around 9 weeks ago.
2006-11-29 19:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by priss879 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
that's tough. when your ob tells you you are "x" amount of time pregnant they assume your pregnancy date to be the day you started your last period. so your fetus is not 11 weeks along it is actually less than that, but you should do a paternity test to be sure.
2006-11-29 19:11:41 · answer #10 · answered by somebody's a mom!! 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋