Why am i so unlucky in my life?!!?

Question

i am so unlucky.... i probably am one of the people god wanted born to live a damn horrible life...

first off im ugly
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2nd i have a unibrow and my parents wont let me remove it
3rd i just moved away from my entire family and all my friends.. just so my dad can get a better job here
4th im not smart and probably have no future other than joining the army
and lastly i have no life anymore
i go to school come back and go straight to work as a stocker at at grocery store

god damn i am so unlucky!!!!

Answer 1

Hey there - chin up! :o)

1. First, let me say that you are NOT ugly! Not at all! You have very nice eyes and a clear complexion and I'm sure your smile is dazzling.

2. Second, when you turn 18 and/or go off on your own in the world, you can remove any hair you want (though I really don't think you need to).

3. I know moving can be hard, but I'm sure that your father is grateful for your sacrifice and it shows that you love and support him. If he isn't, you can at least feel good that you are helping him out. You obviously have a computer - and a camera for it - so you can keep in touch with family and friends that way. I know it isn't the same, but it will help with the transition. You can also plan visits (since your family still lives there and you will likely return) which will be so fun to look forward to!

4. You can create any future you want. Just work hard and you will move up in the world - everyone starts somewhere and there is absolutely nothing wrong with stocking groceries.

I hope that you will start to feel better about yourself. There is nothing more damaging to one's spirit than getting down on oneself. Think positive, and count your blessings. Think of how many people are dying of cancer, have lost loved ones (even just within the time it took for you to type your question), are homeless, have frightening diseases, and the like. There are always people much worse off than you, and the fact that you have a home, have a family, have friends, have possessions - computer, camera, etc., and even have the opportunity TO work are blessings.

Wishing you all the best - because you deserve it!

Answer 2

1)I feel u on that one man I feel so unlucky too. I do think I am ugly but I never use to. People say I am not, I do see girls looking at me yet I can not get a girl that makes me kind of second guess my looks. I quit my job as a bricklayer/Laborer so now I am jobless. I do not think I am smart either. I lost contact with most of my friends, two of my good friends do not call unless they wants something, so really now I only got 1 friend when I use to have lots, so I feel your pain.

2) I would not care what your parents say about shaving, you need to do what will make you feel better. Try for a career and go for it. I hope things look up to you as well as me.

Good luck

Answer 3

You're actually not ugly at all. Just shave off the moustache and do something about the unibrow and you'll be fine. Your facial features seem symmetrical and your nose isn't weird and your eyes are big...I don't get why you complain.

As for your future, work harder in school. People generally have the same intelligence. It's 90% perspiration, 10% inspiration.

Answer 4

If you feel that bad about your life, you need somebody to talk to,
like a counselor at school.
Try that, and just remember that life can get so much better as you grow into it.
In high school, I was a 5'2 freshman weighing 100 pounds.
It wasn't pretty.
When I graduated, I was six foot and 125.
Again, not a good situation.
I wasn't able to participate in very many high school activities since I couldn't get a ride.
But it all took off after that.
I served in the Marines and that gave me a ton of self confidence,
I married a beautiful woman because of that self confidence,
got a good job, fathered an outstanding son, and my life is good!
Stand in there, it only gets better.

Answer 5

You are so not alone! I think I'm ugly, too! When I look in the mirror, I don't think I look too bad but women don't seem to find me attractive so I must be ugly, right? The thing of it is, is that we are who we are and f**k the rest of the world if they don't like us. We have a right to be here and to be happy like anyone else. We just have to take what we were given and make the best of it. We are all beautiful in God's eyes.

Answer 6

This is what every one thinks about him self.
I have got three friends each thinks that other is more lucky than her.
This is what is usual for people.One of my friends think that she should have been as lucky as i am.But i wish that i should be as lucky as she is.
So try to see people who are below you and thank God of what you are.
You have got a nice complexion and there are many people i have seen with poor complexions but still they think themself beautiful and compare themselves with the complexions of those who are even worst then them.
I think you are somewhere from subcontinent?Ur complexion suggests.

Answer 7

over 60% of the world's population has never used a telephone.

By virtue of the fact that you're using a computer, you're in the lucky top 40%!

Answer 8

it sounds to me your young. so i must be careful of what i say.
get off the s tty and get on with it ,you had a nerve to get on
the internet. you are not alone untill you give up. ?

Answer 9

You lack revelation about your life, its not that you are unlucky. It's a matter of perception!

Answer 10

man, dun worry, luck will come one day. Hang in there, and everything will turn out.