My boyfriend and I fool around in the back of his van some nights. Well, after he rubs my clit for a while, I get to the point where I feel like I have to pee, and my clit hurts somewhat. I've read many places to ignore this feeling, relax, and just let it flow, and that it's not pee. I never really did that because I was afraid I would pee, and all over the back of his van. Well, one night I actually took that advice and relaxed. Well, it didn't feel much different from peeing, and since it was dark, how was I supposed to know whether it was pee or an orgasm? Is this a normal feeling? So how do I know?
Please, no retarded answers like, "if u arent sure if u had a orgasm then u didnt have 1"
Please, I'd like some descent intelligible answers for this.
2006-11-29 18:36:43 · 10 answers · asked by kichigai_naynay 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I thought I was having the same problem...gurl it isnt pee halleluah! It's female ejactulation!!! I was so happy to hear this today through this site...please read through these two links...very useful!!!God Bless!
2006-12-01 06:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by Buttermami 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haha well I guess it's good to know that there are some open people in this world that ask questions such as that. But I don't have my masters in Women's Studies or anything but acutally the "liquid" that you may take to be pee or "urine" is infact common Saliva, well, pretty much. Sounds wierd?, but actually the same saliva that is located in your mouth/lungs also is the same saliva that moistens the vaginal area. But hey, don't feel bad, this was one of my questions. But mine was more like, " When a man ejaculates, sperm ejects, but when a women masturbates, what is the fluid that ejects and what is it's purpose? I suppose it's a nerve that releases the fluid because it is sensing that it isnt moist enough, kind of relative to the way your eye tears if it is too dry. Is that good enough? Haha and furthermore, if you even feel like you HAVE to urinate during an "orgasm", the same fluid may come out, and your urine would still stay as it is, except you'd have that "BULDGING BLADDER" feeling....
2016-05-23 04:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It`s difficult to say. When I get to the point of orgasm, I feel like I`mn going to pee, although I don`t, it`s just my natural juices flowing. If you was to relax & let it flow, you will find pee comes out stronger & for longer than vaginal juices. This may sound gross, but there is one sure way to find out. Next time you pee, place your finger in the flow, & then taste it. If you try putting your finger doen there after you have made love, & tasting that, you will know if theres a difference. It wont hurt you to put a little of either fluid on the edge of your tounge.
2006-11-29 19:41:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
why don't you try something like peeing and then doing some mastrubation in your own time. You can do the rubbing as well as your boyfriend in your own time and pee before you go with your boyfriend. And dispite what popular novels say about orgasms being an earthshaking experiance which will konck you out...real life is just plain pleasure, pressure and release.
2006-11-29 19:08:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that means u came hon! congrats!!! when i'm about to orgasm i feel like i'm about to pee all over the place, u relax and just let it take u and enjoy the ride! u feel so relaxed afterwards, thats called an orgasm and u had 1, your toes curl up and u could just scream, enjoy!
2006-11-29 18:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by fee 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
From what you described it sounds like you did indeed have an orgasm. Don't worry, you are normal. An orgasm would have given you a sense of relief and satisfaction. Just enjoy and don't worry about it.
2006-11-29 18:41:26 · answer #6 · answered by Tenn Gal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No problem. A piece of cake!
If it smelled like a pee, it was a pee.
If it didn't smell like a pee, it was an orgasm.
Hopefully, it was an orgasm.
2006-11-29 18:46:06 · answer #7 · answered by Dumbo 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
just try to use the bathroom before you fool around next time. i think if it was pee you would now it. but to be sure just make sure you go before you two "go" if you know what i meen
2006-11-29 19:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by heidi_rammstein 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't sound like an orgasm to me. sounds like your boyfriend needs to try something else.
2006-11-29 18:39:16 · answer #9 · answered by somebody's a mom!! 7 · 1⤊ 4⤋
i think you are a bit young for this tell daddy!or a doctor!. good luck
2006-11-29 18:41:19 · answer #10 · answered by luckydo6 3 · 2⤊ 6⤋