Why do I always date the SAME kind of guy?

Question

I am a 27 year old female. Since I was like 9, guys always lied to me about their age. The guy I am with now, it has been 2 years, but the age difference kills us, he does not appreciate me and everything I do for him. I know maybe I should not be with him, because I know he don't deserve me, but being a cute girl, I always date the cute guys who ALWAYS screw me over, they either have a big head, use you for something, or take what they can and hurt you. Why do I always go for cute guys that are trouble and not a guy that is average and will love me more in the end,I always choose the same KIND of guy, and always end with the same conclusion, except now I want a baby with this guy, I want the baby more than I want him, and he is there, and I don't know what to do.

Answer 1

you like losers

Answer 2

One of you is a loser. Or maybe 1+1=2 losers?
Seriously now, sounds like a self esteem problem, your in a greasy rut and need to get out of it and move on.
FORGET the baby business until you have a decent caring male. He must be as willing as you THINK you are to take on the RESPONSIBILITY of fatherhood and you motherhood.
Us taxpayers don't want or need another neglected child to raise and the child deserves REAL parents. Having a baby to cuddle as a kitten isn't your answer right now. You will only make your problems WORSE.
How many guys REALLY want someone elses kid to raise??
I'd prefer to make my own in a solid relationship and take the responsibility from there. Kids just don't accept step parents well at all. Another can of worms for you to think about.
For now, keep your legs crossed, AND MOVE ON!!
P.S. You can't live with cute and looks, so start making wiser choices in men. QUIT THE **** FANTASIZING, COME INTO THE REAL WORLD.

Answer 3

You are attracted to guys that are bad for you. Its that simple. Beware of your attractions, because its not necessarily in your best interests. You should not act on your wants, especially the baby. That's a big responsibility, and to want to raise a child without a willing father is totally irresponsible. Go through with if it is your goal to screw up an innocent life. Wait, get some help to find out why you are attracted to the wrong type. It might be because deep down, you think an average guy, one who would treat you right, is out of your league.

Answer 4

It's not the cute guys that are the problem, its you. You let em have the pooty and you let em walk all over you then you say "why do I do it"

Here's a new word for you to try on: "No"

As in, "No, you can't have the pooty, instead you're gonna prove you like and respect me and can hold a job and carry on an intelligent conversation first"

It doesn't matter how cute he is, a guy is programmed to get the pooty. After that if he's not interested, no big deal. You gotta turn that around, since you're obviously looking for Daddy material.

Answer 5

I hate to point out the obvious but you need to grow up. You've been doing the same thing since you were nine. Try something different. Try cultivating friendships with guys and not judging them by their looks. You'd be surprised how many nice average guys there are out there. You aren't giving them a chance.

Answer 6

I dont save on with the comparable element in any respect when I injury up with a woman. i attempt to circulate locate the choice (nonetheless has to look sturdy) So if i've got been given one in all those sturdy females thats a christian or something no longer that thats undesirable yet when I easily have not completed something exciting in a minute. Then im going out and looking out a wild *** female thats a freak. no longer basically does it piss her off. yet you get to have your exciting too!!!!

Answer 7

if you do not change your beliefs, your life will be like this for ever. your choice