My best friend is jealous of me because we have the same dream and our dream is become a model..She's jealous because I'm taller than her and more guys like me than her. She always tries to put me down like saying that I look ugly, i'm not a good gf, and everything is my fault. I love her, but i can't be with her if she kept acting like this. Please help me!! I think that i lost my confidence because of her. What should I do/say to make her stop? Please help!
2006-11-29 17:19:15 · 11 answers · asked by billy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi, The best thing to do is find another friend. She is NO friend if she does this. Start socializing with others and try not to be around her. She is toxic to you and exactly what is happening to you is the result. She will lower your self esteem and ruin your self confidence. Remind yourself that what she is saying and doing is not the truth and she is not a friend. Surround yourself with positive, content, and happy people.
2006-11-29 17:25:44 · answer #1 · answered by sunshinesue_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to keep your friendship with her, next time she says something that puts you down, tell her to keep her opinions to herself...if she doesn't stop then, make her feel just as bad by replying, "you think? I think I look good, but, you should go look in the mirror!" if you shoot her confidence down after her remarks, she will stop making you feel so bad, because once you point out her flaws, hers are all she'll see. when a girl is jealous of another girl, she will say things to put you down because she isn't confident in herself..I know, I have a friend who does the same thing, she always puts herself in competition with me, and I don't let it get to me
2006-11-29 17:52:29 · answer #2 · answered by TaureanAngel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not your friend if she acts that way toward you. As much as you may care for her, you're better off without her. Maybe if you stop clinging to someone who obviously doesn't think of you as a friend you'll be able to find a real best friend.
2006-11-29 17:21:45 · answer #3 · answered by Empy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, real friends do not want to see their friends hurt. Friends help one another and respect each other. She is not your friend purposely hurting you like that. I know you may love her and you may still want to continue being her friend but just like things happen for a reason people come in and out our lives for reasons also and it's to teach us something.
2006-11-29 17:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by niecytonio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you certainly have seemed to suffer on the actions of your friend....hon....this girl IS no friend....end this immediately ....go on with your career and forget this jealous woman!....tell her that you don't simply want a friendship with her anymore if she is going to act that way.....good luck hon
2006-11-29 17:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a "best" friend and leave this "associate" to her problems. Usually, I would say help them to help themselves but when their actions/goal is to tear you down you need to leave them to keep yourself in tact.
2006-11-29 17:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by Enchanted Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what she says make you lose your confidence, then it's very important you stop being her friend.
2006-11-29 17:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by Rollercoaster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seem,s like you need to tell her to act her age and as for you you might need to find a friend who isnt using you for her own twofaced ways in my opion?
2006-11-29 17:23:46 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's your best friend? You need to find new friends.
2006-11-29 17:21:08 · answer #9 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are aware of what she is doing that if she values your friendship she MUST stop
2006-11-29 17:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by devora k 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋