I know this is a weird question but I had a baby but I was wondering if "down there" will ever be the same?
2006-11-29 16:57:39 · 9 answers · asked by shane m 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
had baby 3 weeks ago
2006-11-29 16:58:17 · update #1
LOL I thought the same thing! I had a vaginal delivery, and tore a bit - enough for three stitches. I lost a lot of sensation. I was also vey self-conscious about the scar tissue, and the fact that a baby had just come out of there! Not to mention, it hurt like the devil when Ambler was born.
Now, four months later, my husband and I are right back at it. Is it exactly the same? No. but I have all my sensation back, and love making love again. I can feel where the stitches went in, but a little less every day. I cannot hold my pee as long as I used to, either. But I can satisfy myself the same as ever, and still love sex with my guy.
When I was wondering if it would ever be the same, I went out and bought some really sexy lingerie, sent my baby to the inlaws (who were delighted to have him), and now.. hopefully... we have a little sister on the way. My husband insists that it is just as great as it ever was, and I have to agree.
Go for it, girl - you sound really cool. :D
2006-11-29 17:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by Samlet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL. I remember when my daughter was born 2 years ago I used to wonder the same thing.
It won't look exactly the same as before, however the sensation with sex has remained the same.
My thought process is, Iv'e had one child and we are currently trying for another, so if it's not broke, there's no pointing fixing it and for me personally at the end of the day - the only person I'm willing to show it to is my husband and his not complaining.......
2006-11-29 17:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it will NEVER be the same as it was before you had a baby, NO part of your body will ever be the same. You can do exercises to keep toned but that is it. Your body has forever changed you can't go back.
2006-11-29 17:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, but awfully close. Depends on whether you had tearing, and even how long you were in labor (so I've heard). I had two tears, one where the episiotomy would have been (four stitches), and one in my labia (2 stitches). I have scarring from it, and my vagina is a bit "looser" than it used to be, but my sensitivity is actually stronger now. Kegels can help, some, but you have to be really diligent for them to work. I wouldn't worry about it.
2006-11-29 17:04:12 · answer #4 · answered by Angela M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh nooooo sweetie it will never be the same again.....it may feel the same but it will not be the same remember a baby came out of there and inspite of the fact that the whole will shrink it will never go back to it's normality. but you could still enjoy sex thou i will still be sweet (smile)
2006-11-29 17:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by Im Just Blessed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! Don't worry things will be fine...and normal again. How do you think people keeping having babies all the time lol ;)
2006-11-29 17:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do keggals, if you have done them through out pregnancy & post pregnancy it will be close to normal. Your vaginal walls are a muscle & can go back into shape
2006-11-29 16:59:47 · answer #7 · answered by notAminiVANmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months after you had the baby, your tighter then ever!
2006-11-29 17:05:58 · answer #8 · answered by PIXXIE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it does go back to normal. Kegel exercises help.
2006-11-29 19:50:31 · answer #9 · answered by priss879 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋