I dated this guy for a little over a year. I ended it, I just didnt feel like our relationship was going anywhere. I hated him, and I'm really not sure why. Anyway, 2 years later we started talking again, and now we are really great friends. He and I talk about our relationships with others, and one day I asked him if he still liked me in the way he use 2. He said no, just as a friend. I kinda wanted him to say yes, but he didnt, so I was cool with it. The other day he, our other friend, and myself went to a movie and we walked around the mall. I felt like he was watching me, so everytime I would turn to look at him, he would turn his head. Whenever, our eyes would meet we would turn our heads. But when I did look in his eyes, It was a magical feeling that I cant even really explain. Am I just imaging this? or is there something more between us?.. what should I do?.. I am really so confused.. Please help me.
2006-11-29 16:24:40 · 7 answers · asked by an14341991 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I forgot to mention that after we left the movie and I came home I signed on AIM and we talked. I said i thought the night had been fun.. he said yeah it was.. then I said we really cant go another year without seeing each other.. he said.. yeah, I know.
2006-11-29 16:27:36 · update #1
Me and this guy where real close and inseperable i told him deep things and he did the same back to me.. after 3 years of knowing him i started to feel somethin for him i told him and we had a masssive fight because my bestfriend started to talk to him heaps and flirt.. then we didnt talk for a year and only recently we have just become 'friends' again.. so my advice for you is to watch out.. just becareful... you dont want to loose what you already have.
Good Luck!!
2006-11-29 16:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by hypocrisy_00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear......it is your imagination & fantasy!
Base on your story......i blieve your ex bf is being nice to u........n wants to show u that in spite of an earlier break up he could still be your friend.
.......but I think he has some doubts in whether u have accepted him back again as a friend............or are u pretending to be friendly w him.........remember u hated him once when u were dating..........!
He is now watching u to see if he made the right decision to be friendly w u again..........or is he going to be.....or not to be.......welcomed back as a friend.......n to be like....or to be hated.......again!
What do u expect if u were to look him in the eyes....... what would any guy do when an ex........now just a friend look him in the eyes?
Stop imagining.......get your feet on the ground.....n be thankful that he is a decent fella......who still treat u as a good friend.
......we all know bf-gf relationship is not easy to manage.......all need maturity.......sincerity......true genuine feelings........a big does of lvoe & care!
Its o.k. to dream & fantasize now & then........but real people needs real understanding & down to earth sincerity!
Take good care......n treasure your friends.
2006-11-29 16:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by sandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste this opportunity , better go ahead - take the lead , hug him / kiss him and again become one , will be fun to be with him again . This time do not hurt him by criticize his way of life , no complaint about his long absent or moving around with some friends , give him some freedom , his own space to breath freely . I am sure this way he will be yours forever , mark my word .
2006-11-29 16:35:01 · answer #3 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
How old are you? I'm going to give you my opinion as a man.
If you are showing him that you kind of want something, he would take it regardless if it is something to last or just a 'one-day' thing... so let him make the first move and don't show him you are 100% interested since the first minute...
Don't be a fool!
Now, if all you want to have is fun... i mean, HAVE FUN!!
Oscar
2006-11-29 16:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by Osk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you still have a crush, but the only way to know for sure is if you just asked him as a "hypthetical situation". i had a very similar relationship that i ended a month ago. he goes to my school so everytime i see him hug a girl i get hella jealous. our relationship ended because of the same reason, i wouldnt get back with him.
2006-11-29 16:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by Cinderella 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, ask yourself if you want him to be you your boy friend or not.
Since u both been talking so deep on personal, you should know what is roughly on his thinking base on his action to other girls, which u can observe.
As for my opinions, as long as you love him, go ahead and give yourself a chance
2006-11-29 16:31:56 · answer #6 · answered by Reya 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know you want him ...and you know by his actions he wants you ....soo don't waste time by being confused...just do it.... please..... it might just be the best thing you've ever done :)
2006-11-29 16:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by Bob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋