My job IS complete!
*takes a bow*
2006-11-29 16:26:12
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answer #1
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answered by pornstar 4
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Yes and no. If you are capable of truly looking at both sides of a situation and analyze each, then present your case to this person as a meditor would, then yes. But if, in the middle of your own conversations, the emotional takes charge of the factual and realistic, you are not ready. That's when you prepare a sheet of paper for each side, and began the pros / cons -- or mine / yours. Treat this as legal assignment in your own mind. Submit the list, when completed to the (at least) one day test. If you still have the same articles on both sides and are sure you covered everything, then give a copy of the document to your aggressor; and give this person time to do their own analysis. Set up a discussion when both parties are prepared -- you may receive a revised list before the meeting, and you have to be willing to accept this as part of a mediator's job. Go through the process again prior to the meeting. I do believe that you, Vot, would be capapble of mediating. It takes someone who is logical and rational at all times. You cannot be the judge, however, but if you can get both parties to agree to a settlement, then the job is done. I have been unable to do this because the person who wronged me was drinking on the sly and openly and with other women -- as any alcoholic would. The paper would be torn up and thrown in the trash. I can maintain my cool and do my best to keep other situations completely under control, but in cases where the other party is more emotional than anything else, or on a bender, it is impossible.
2016-05-23 04:07:50
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answer #2
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answered by ? 4
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this is a FUN site (as advertised on uk tv) if you dont like a question feel free to ignore it! this is cyberspace for gods sake ,theres room for everyone!:-)
2006-11-29 20:01:00
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answer #3
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answered by ginger 6
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apparently you haven't be around wen the clone monster comes to visit,
have you noticed the assrape postings yet?
its be allot worse .
this is the milled chilled friendly stuff
2006-11-29 16:29:15
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answer #4
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answered by loboe27 4
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I like 'pornstars' questions and also answers. It's called having fun.
2006-11-29 16:41:24
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answer #5
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answered by Anonymous
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Another person just complained about that person. I have not across him/her and I wish I won't.
2006-11-29 20:53:53
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answer #6
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answered by Hardrock 6
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Live and let live. We are all here just to have fun.
2006-11-29 17:27:44
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answer #7
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answered by Anonymous
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Those are the ones that get away with offending and/or bothering people. If you have a problem, report them.
2006-11-29 16:25:13
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answer #8
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answered by Anonymous
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STFU! obviously that pole in your as.s is rubbing on you. if it pisses you off that much turn it off
2006-11-30 03:25:17
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answer #9
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answered by Go! 4
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eave her alone if you dont like her questions dont answer them or even better dont read them. ITs people like you who cause trouble in here just leave her alone. I think that you are jealous of the fact that she asks questions that you are afraid to ask. quit whining already
2006-11-29 16:30:58
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answer #10
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answered by CherryRed 3
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dude, lay off. They're just having some fun.
2006-11-29 16:25:31
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answer #11
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answered by Anonymous
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