Why is it that everytime I show my picture to guys online they stop talking to me???
2006-11-29 16:14:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would show you my photo, however, I don't know how to post it. Sorry.
2006-11-29 16:26:57 · update #1
Looks do matter. Lots of people will say they don't to sound "PC," but lets face it, you want to be attracted to your partner - everybody does. I think the difference lies in preference - everyone has their different definition of "attractive," so you just need to find a match. Don't give up, it will happen.
I've been "looking for love" online as well, and I get my rejections, but I also get those who really like what they see. You just need to roll with the punches until the right one comes along. If you believe in fate, just take all the rejections as the lead-up to something wonderful.
When that special person finds you and makes you feel beautiful, you will be grateful that you waited for him to find you. :-)
Best of luck!
2006-11-29 16:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
To me, beauty lies within. (I'm an eyes person myself) I feel your pain, though. I used to be the biggest geek in middle school; I had one friend and she wouldn't even talk to me in school. Now, though, I get told I'm beautiful and that I should be a model regularly, and am also married to a guy that most people consider ugly. Personally, though, I think he's one of the best looking guys I've ever been with because he has a beautiful soul. My advice is this: never give up, every body has a different idea of what beauty is!
2006-11-30 00:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is odd. Are you saying anything before they stop talking to oyu? What do you talk about? I do think looks play a part only for the initial attraction. I do think personality has a lot to do with it too. Maybe after they talk to you they think they dont have much in common with you. Keep trying and you will find the right match. I believe there is someone for everybody.
2006-11-30 00:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by Scout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the individual, personally i find the personality and sense of humour more attractive then the physical looks of a person, i love it when people make me laugh. Each to their own really. I am sure you are stunning and the boys you are showing your pic to are mearly just boys and need to grow up. Good luck sweetie.
Email me if you want to know how to post your picture on here.
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2006-11-30 03:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Princess ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey I think personality is more important and what is on the inside. You don't have to be beautiful on the outside to be a beautiful person. It is your actions and caring that really count. God bless you. Just be your self.
2006-11-30 00:23:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think looks matter really. I find the personality of people more attractive if they are good people.
2006-11-30 03:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by Wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello.....Men are visual. It goes with the territory.
I'm sure not every guy is going to turn you away.
I'm a guy. I'm married and not looking. I can be bias.
Show us your pic.
2006-11-30 00:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ur not their type.Everyone has their own beauty.If they dont like you soo wat?...They probably dont look that good either if they're online dating.lol..
2006-11-30 00:17:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would much rather you be fun to be around and with, than you be beutifull and boring.
actions and behavior can be as much of a turn on as looks, sometimes even better than looks.
2006-11-30 02:22:08 · answer #9 · answered by K E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks do mater to some people.
2006-11-30 00:25:33 · answer #10 · answered by U can't B like me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋