Hi, I'd like to ask if it hurts to have anal sex? A guy told me that I'll be the first woman he tries anal sex on, but I'm worried that it'll hurt. Does it hurt badly? Ladies, please help me with this. If it hurts, what can I do? Should I use a tube of lubricant to help? Thanks, kind ladies!!!
2006-11-29 16:12:42 · 12 answers · asked by danielle s 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
The anus is a very delicate area of your body, was not designed
for that, trust me.
Many diseases are transmitted thru anal sex.
Normally this is a place where bacteria lives...and thrives...
I wouldn't play with that.....what if you get cross contamination
and develop an infection? Is it worth it?
2006-11-29 16:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by miriam8676@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Anal sex can be painful. If he has never done it before... it could be more so. I wouldn't advise trying with someone you don't 100% trust the first time because then you will be more nervous which will make it hurt even more. My suggestion is use lots of astroglide, go really slow(he needs to be really considerate of you to be patient enough the first time for it to not hurt), and third if it is too uncomfortable or you can't relax then speak up!!! Don't think that you have to have anal sex if you don't want to. It is your choice and it should be enjoyable. If you do not have orgasms during regular intercourse, chances are you won't have one during this either.
2006-11-30 00:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by Sissy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lubricant is a must. It will still hurt unless it is done properly. If you are tense and he doesn't wait for your muscles to relax, you will tense up even worse. He needs to go slowly and let you say stop at any time.
Once you both are more experienced at it, it won't be such a big issue. And, yes, even when done correctly, it can cause tearing and puts you at higher risk for infection. It also isn't ideal for the primary route of sex as that's not built for it.
Also vagina and then anal is fine. Anal then vagina isn't unless he cleans his penis or the toy is totally cleaned before switching. The bacteria can cause infections if they enter the vagina or the urinary tract.
2006-11-30 00:33:26 · answer #3 · answered by Yumicho 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay 1st off it depends on his size and his shape. My 1st attempt was with my daughters father and it wasn't too painful my 2nd attempt with my fiancee was HE!!. So it really depends I HIGHLY recommend Lube and avoid doing #2 the next day maybe take a Lil bit of prune juice so your stool can be soft and let your anus heal properly. With time and frequency I would assume it wouldn't be as painful. DO NOT use a desensitizer since it will desensitize him and well it defeats the purpose of anal. Best of luck
2006-11-30 00:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ Mom2two Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it hurts, even when my baby daddy accidently stuck it in for a few seconds it hurt like the dickens, so I wouldn't recommend it. It was not intended for us to take that in the butt!
2006-11-30 00:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by Dietra G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well me for one have not have that experience before but am very well educated in this subject..
umm for one anal sex should not hurt at all.. if it dose then something is going wrong... lube is always good.. you don't want rash or any tears there.. just go for it.. have fun and stay safe
2006-11-30 00:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by OrangePie 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You shouldn't have it. I here that even if you use a lubricant it can break the skin. Be extra careful with this!
2006-11-30 00:17:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ever had to go #2 really bad......well backwards and yes it hurts if you dont lube it up.
2006-11-30 00:19:32 · answer #8 · answered by blahhhhh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO!!!
Dont go there, that part of the body is for exit's only!!
Its just plain wrong, why would you even consider?
2006-11-30 10:44:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if your man wants that it sounds to me that he my have orientation problems it sounds like he might be confused we were made w/2 holes that it can go in he should be happy w/ith that . boy is he greedy if he cant settle for 2 he wants all 3
2006-11-30 00:51:21 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal D 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋