Me and my fiancee been toghter for 4 years but sometimes she brings up my ex and things get bad.?

Question

I met her online and we've been toghter for 4 years now never met her in real life but very shortly ill go thier. I told her about my ex when we first met online but sometimes even now she brings her up and asked me if i still have feelings for her i tell her no i dont but she just dont belive me, I love her so much and she loves me too but she has to start trusting me better. I hope when were toghter things will get better because Ill be phsycially thier showing her love in touches and actions not just words. please write me what you guys think about this, Thank you.

i met her online and we've been toghter for 4 years now never met her in real life but very shortly ill go thier. I told her about my ex when we first met online but sometimes even now she brings her up and asked me if i still have feelings for her i tell her no i dont but she just dont belive me, I love her so much and she loves me too but she has to start trusting me better. I hope when were toghter things will get better because Ill be phsycially thier showing her love in touches and actions not just words. please write me what you guys think about this, Thank you.
P.S. I dont bring up on my ex or talk about her only the first time we met and that was it.

Answer 1

Your big mistake was telling your gf that it was your ex that taught you how to tongue kiss, and maybe you shouldn't of told her you couldn't eat for nine months after she broke up with you...or maybe it was the fact that you told your sex life with your ex ''to the women your suppose to love'' this women has never had a relationship with another male before you '' not even a kiss'' yet you took it upon yourself to hurt her as a women and wife to be...yeah from your suppose to be soul mate...no wonder i get angry with you...let the ppl answer your question with all the truth ''over and out''

Answer 2

Wait ... this is a long distance engagement?
Oy.
Do you REALLY think you're both ready to be engaged without spending a decent amount of time together?
Once you two sort things out and can finally close the long distance gap, I think you'll find that you're not the people you thought you were and that this egagemtent probably happened a little too early.
She's just really insecure about the realtionship right now, and with good reason seeings how you're both apart from one another constantly. She just wants your reassurance that you love her and not your ex. She probably has it in your mind that since your ex is most likely in your area, you may be cheating on her. She's just worrying about your commitment.
Once you two come together and end the long distance thing, if she continues to be untrustworthy and bringing up your ex every chance she has, I would say it's time to break it off.
Maybe you should be thinking about that before either one of you moves to be with the other (if that's the plan).

Answer 3

It's normal. It's just the assurance of your feeling that she needs. Cos both of you have not met before, thus, the reason. I also like to ask my honey if he loves me (though I know he does), and when he says yes , I will tell him I don't believe him. But he knows i am only pulling his leg. Deep down in my heart , I really appreciate him and each time he tells me he loves me, I always feel that I am the happiest being on earth. Perhaps, things will be better when both of you meet . All the Best !!!!

Answer 4

You had a life before her and she'd better understand that and soon. Maybe you speak highly of your ex and this makes her feel insecure. If you guys end up living together then your fiance will see how the to of you interact or don't interact...maybe it will fix itself. Good Luck and for your sake, I hope that she gets a little more confidence!!