my boyfriend is married and i don't know what to do should i stay with him or should i leave him
2006-11-29 15:18:55 · 33 answers · asked by native 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that depends, do you love him and could you stand to let him go.does it make your heart ache to think of life without him?
2006-11-29 18:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by tarzan's lady again 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM! HE'S MARRIED! WHAT IN THE WORLD ARE YOU THINKING? Married men that cheat will never leave their wife! Even if they do what do you get? A cheater that would walk away from a life that he has built with another woman! Why won't he do the same thing to you. I'm sorry, but you need to get some selfesteem and try dating men that are actually available! Move on with your life, there is a man out there that will love you and only you!
2006-11-29 15:43:16 · answer #2 · answered by Topaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you stay with someone that is married. This guy is only looking for one thing. I'm sure you can guess what that is. He has somebody to go home to. It's definitely not you if he is married. Don't you want to have a life with someone that you don't always have to keep secrets from. Dump his *** and find yourself a real man. If he is cheat on his wife do you think he is going to be loyal to you. I think not.
2006-11-29 15:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by yp_toby_pickering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be kidding me....you are half of an affair...and you have to ask this question.
Studies have shown that even if he leaves his wife and marries you....your relationship has less than a 10% chance of lasting more than three years....less than 6% of lasting over 5 years.
Get away from this guy immediately and permanently.
2006-11-29 15:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, mine too. I haven't been able to leave mine because we have just grown used to each other. We accept each other that way. I always told him that he has my shoulder to lean on for as long as he wants. We have been together 7 years and we've had our ups and downs, but we're holding on. Sometimes I think that we are more friends than lovers and it does get hard; however, we are both pretty much aware that somehow the relationship keeps us from the stress of everyday life. My advice is that you and him have to compromise someway without getting hurt or hurting that third person. I believe that what she doesn't know - it's not going to hurt her. Good luck.
2006-11-29 15:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by Ladyinred 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay with him because you are selfish and lack morals and values and so does he so you two deserve each other. Enjoy the pain and tears you cause as you will one day get them back.
Read Dr. Phils advice on dating a married man.
2006-11-29 15:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear I am afraid that you are in a no win situation. What do you expect to gain by being the other woman? He is appparently not going to leave his wife so what is in it for you? Leave while you still have your dignity. Believe me these things hardley ever work out.
2006-11-29 15:44:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is still married and has no intention of getting a divorce in the very near future, that makes you a homewrecker. Leave him.
2006-11-29 15:24:30 · answer #8 · answered by maimai 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, if he is married he should NOT be your boyfriend. Unless you want even more headache and heartache when the cat is let out of the bag ( and trust me, eventually, it will) better wise up, cut your losses, and find someone who isnt already taken.
2006-11-29 16:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by MrsPTB4Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these things usually never end well. the wives usually win in the end. hubby is out looking to feel like Mr. masculine. wife will forgive him and he goes home leaving you in the sh##.
dump him until he is single and prepared to get into a real relationship.
2006-11-29 15:22:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to stay with a man who has lied to you. First of all he has made a vow to love and honor his wife and if he can't keep a vow to her he can't keep it too you are anyone and he isn't worth your time get out while you have the upper hand. you deserve better
2006-11-29 15:20:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋