What do you do when you feel alone, and everything in life seems to let you down. What do you do when you feel depressed, cry yourself to sleep and feel that no one cares. What do you do when you pray for healing every night, but it seems as though God just doesnt hear? And what about when you start to even lose faith, cause your whole life seems to be just one big mistake.
2006-11-29 15:14:13 · 19 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
First, I really cant say why I'm depressed. I think alot of it has to deal with the fact that I have RSD(look it up if ya want to know), and have alot of pain due to it. I try to be happy, I really do, today at church I felt so good, and then I get home and my dads asking me why I cant just be happy and my moms complaining at me, and its like a suction just took it all away. Second, I was on antidepressants at one point, but I'm on so many drugs for my RSD I dont take them that often. Third, I dont have any friends, we just moved here and I've always been the quite lonely outcast. *sighs*
2006-11-29 15:28:40 · update #1
Last detail, I haven't given up on God, its just a feeling of doubt I get sometimes, after years of praying for an end to my pain. I think everyone most go through some feelings of doubt during their walk with god.
2006-11-29 15:33:10 · update #2
One thing that helps me through on a day to day basis...
God doesn't give you anything you can't handle.
When life knocks you to your knees....
it's time to pray.
This is all a test, Sweetie.
He is testing your faith.
Don't give up on God.
He hasn't given up on you!!
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2006-11-29 15:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by COOKIE 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Here is exactly what you do:
Turn on the stereo. Put on "Whip it" by Divo. And turn it up loud.
Then scream a couple of times really loud.
THEN your healing begins.
Start by:
1) Separating the people from your problems.
2) Write down in a nice big whiteboard all the crap that's on your mind
3) Decide which one really deserves your attention and which one doesn'
4) Decide which one you can change and which one you can't
5) Decide how you can cope with the ones you can't change
6) Decide how to change the ones you can't
if it means you have to leave people, quite jobs, start some sort of treatement then that's what it means. JUST DO IT.
your happiness is paramount. it is the most important thing in the world bar none.
If you can't deal with the issues see a professional, they can perscribe some anti-depressants that could help you see through the muck
Stop blaming god for your misfortunes. Even if he's listening you're obviously failing his tests. Stand up and take conrtol of your life.
2006-11-29 23:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by DW 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Except for the god thing because i dont have a religion,everything u said is me. What i do is simply think about things that arent about me and i get myself into some deep thought about life and why its messed up lyk this, how people are so in the past and worried about the future they dont relise that the horrible past they keep investigationg is repeating it self in the present. But what i do when i feel like that doesnt really help but it deverts my attention away from me. But if u do find a way to feel happier let me now ASAP
2006-11-29 23:25:48 · answer #3 · answered by secretrainbow89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a number of things that you can do. First and foremost, figure out why you are so depressed. Second of all...God helps those who help themselves. You can never resolve anything by doing nothing. Lastly, remember all the good things in your life. There is a reason you are here, you just don't know it yet.
2006-11-29 23:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by lynette g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think to myself that I am "still fortunate".
You could be in a situation like this....
My brother-in-law has been brain dead since he was17 years old from an accident. 20 years (Last year) later he died of complications.
He would have probably given anything to be depressed and feel let down inside of a heatlhy body that can think and comprehend things..
2006-11-29 23:18:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I make stronger concentration whit my God
because him is my better friend,and all the time help me
I have faith and sometimes I weaken but only 2 or 3 hrs no more
Jesus and the father him give me trust and I follow all steps theirs
2006-11-29 23:31:53 · answer #6 · answered by gavilan A. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Singing is the best remedy.
Those who have good friends never feels alone. Therefore if possible try to make good friends. Don't trouble them by giving them a list of problem whenever you meet but just friendly talks.
Those who like to read books never feel lonelyness. But when you get tired of reading walking is the another best remedy. Try.
2006-11-29 23:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I run laps.
I get myself in the sun and run laps. lap after lap until I cannot run any more.
between the sunlight and the endorphans, I feel better. I look at what is wrong and figure out what i can do to amend the problem.
I do not abandon my faith, for this is when I need it the most
2006-11-29 23:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont lose faith noone is a mistake and things always change youll look back later and see there was a reason for the despair
2006-11-29 23:18:18 · answer #9 · answered by GreyMatter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember this very simple paragraph
Live with no excuses,
Love with no regrets,
When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry,
Show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile..
That is the answer to all your questions..
2006-11-29 23:17:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
That means u about to understand the truth about the world.
swim in the lonliness. understand the truth of this world lonely.
2006-11-29 23:27:38 · answer #11 · answered by buway2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋