2006-11-29 15:08:30 · 28 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is playing with your mind so tell him to be nice or dump him for someone that will treat you right
2006-11-29 15:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
More and more, people abuse the words "I love you." It sounds like your bf is doing just that, and he clearly shows that he's abusing those words by treating you as you've indicated. By saying hateful and sarcastic things to you, he is trying to exercise some sort of psychological/"intellectual" superiority over you (= power games), and that's not right because you guys are supposed to be equal partners in your relationship. Let him know this; if he responds negatively, leave him. You deserve better.
2006-11-29 23:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by jaded1004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay. The hateful thing is an issue but the sarcastic thing isnt that big of a deal. ive always been a sarcastic person. I dont mean to be a jerk and i think its funny but others might not. He could juswt be playing. Just understand that not everyone is serious and uptight all the time.
2006-11-29 23:11:45 · answer #3 · answered by Niko 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i can't really answer your question properly with out knowing alot more . But its likely it has nothing at all to do with you . Maybe he has depression or self esteem issue. Most people with depression tend to lash out at others because they dont know how to express themseleves or get really frustrated. Sit down and talk with him its the best way to figure out whats going on. If he tells you he loves you and he verbally abuses you then you know in your heart that he isn't the best thing for you and move on.
2006-11-29 23:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he truly loved you, he wouldn't say hateful things. But you have to make sure he realizes that he is hurting your feelings. He may think he is being funny and if you just laugh, that only reinforces that. Tell him that what he says makes you feel bad. If he doesn't stop after that, then you need to think about finding someone who will listen to how you feel and treat you nicely.
2006-11-29 23:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by 4Esme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would get out of that relationship as soon as you can! Run run now. You do not need to be put down, your self esteem must be taking big hits. You deserve to find someone that can treat you like a lady and that makes you feel like a goddess.
2006-11-29 23:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by jesswonderin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He does NOT love you. If he did, he would not be saying hateful and sarcastic things to you.
Leave him. You can find a better man who will treat you with respect.
2006-11-29 23:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by Nancy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because he's your garden variety mind fuc*. He is manipulative and he is trying to grind you down (your self-esteem). He's a put-down artist. I've been there. If I were you, I would put him out to pasture and find someone who treats you with respect and kindness. Good luck.
2006-11-30 00:00:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying I love you means nothing unless his actions and words show love. Anyone can say they love you but to show it in all they do is the proof you need.
2006-11-30 04:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by souldancer70 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have u ever said something and yet done another different thing?
It's all the same,he's just lying/cheating u
whatever fits
2006-11-29 23:11:16 · answer #10 · answered by Evans 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋