phycological help?

Question

Well first im madly depressed why:
I have exema and everyone is moving forward with life. My friends are moving so fast with their social life because they either are cute and short,big cheas,big but,pretty face. But to me i have none of those qualities my personality sucks and i dont dress the actual girly way. im not highly smart. I've never had a boyfriend.Is this because i refuse to be lyke everyone else or is it simply because of the way i look. At first i was sad because i didnt have a boyfriend and all my friends did and thy made me go everywhere with them and hang with them and their boyfriends. I started getting depressed and started thinking deeply about the way i look and act. But than i found out that i would end up hiding my exema from my boyfriend if i had one and that would just make life difficult. But i was told that i have low self-esteem but i simply refuse to set my self up for disapointment. Am i wrong about my self or am i a wyning gurl or a girl jealous

Answer 1

to crawl out of your shells or hid in them?,to be or not to be? u are very real as u come across here, so i think you are just being anxious about what is going to be in your life, first i lived nexted to a guy that had it and it itched till it bleed but he was so cool and like you he was stuck with it and we liked him cause it was unusual to have something like that , but back to the point get ready and be happy with what u are cause it goes away when your older. your attention was diverted by it and u feel I've missed out, don't worry life is so long that u will laugh over this when time goes by, and you don't want to have anymore time go by with out u so jump into life the world will either lead you or fallow u but u hesitate and u my feel lost, u are too critical about it, okay so u know what critical is now look at everything else that u are and that is what u should focus on, be strong and survive in relationships with growing pains, try knowing that we all are wrestling with lil' things that bug us but move on and don't get hung up making issues if it

Answer 2

As a mental health practitioner with 20+ years experience, now retired, I'd say that, despite everything you've said about yourself, l'd want additional, more objective, information about you in order to "diagnose" your situation, but, being retired and all, I won't have the time or circumstance to get that information and put it together in a format to "diagnose", so I might recommend you go to a mental health clinic or private psychologist or counselor of some training and talk with them and let them "diagnose". Otherwise, you'll get a lot of guesswork on your situation, and that's worse than no information at all. God Bless you.

Answer 3

You're mixing with the wrong company. Let people accept you for who you are, no need to adjust to how others are or hide your exema.