2006-11-29 14:48:11 · 23 answers · asked by melanie a 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Hun you need to tell her. She could help you alot. Don't be afraid, everything will be okay! I'm sorry your going through that! I wish you the best of luck! Make sure ya tell her, no one should go through that!
2006-11-29 14:50:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really need to tell her. Because she is there to listen and to help you with any issues going on in your life I'm so sorry you are going through this no matter what kind of abuse it is it all hurts. You should be thankful she is there and you do have some one to talk to when i was just a little younger than you that was happening to me and I had no one to talk to. And to this day I really haven't spoken about it. It will hurt and haunt you farther down the road please talk to her. That way you won't go through what I did and still do. I hope this helps you to open your eyes and see the angel standing right before you with her arms spread waiting to embrace you and shield you from the pain.
2006-11-29 23:46:06 · answer #2 · answered by Louisa F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have asked this question 6 times in the past two months AND 5 times in the past 12 minutes in different catagories. Only once your father was homeschooling you, once he was a bus driver, and once you were in the 7th grade with a teacher. Have you taken the advice of any other answer in the past 2 months or are you wanting to hear the same stuff over and over again? Once you said your teacher came right out and asked you, once you said your therapist asked you, several times you have wondered how to tell them without getting anyone in trouble...what do you want? If this is real than you should obviously tell your therapist and maybe mention to him/her that you ask about this over and over again and still can't take the advice.
2006-11-29 23:00:15 · answer #3 · answered by Erika H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really should tell her. In what way are you being abused? Is there a way for her to notice? Do you have bruises or are you being abused in another way? Sexually or emotionally? I really hope you tell her, if she's any kind of therapist she can help you. You must tell someone! You don't deserve to live the way you are living. PLEASE GET HELP! I don't know you but I can say that I do care.
2006-11-29 22:54:17 · answer #4 · answered by Violet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't expect her to guess. You need to tell her so that she can help you. I understand that it is going to be the hardest thing you have ever done in your life, but you will feel better as soon as the words are out of your mouth.
As a therapist she legally has to do something about it. She has to report it. Something will get done.
Good Luck, and keep the faith that things can only get better.
2006-11-29 22:54:26 · answer #5 · answered by yzerswoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont hesitate any longer please.... it will be the hardest thing you ever do but also the biggest relief in the end. My sister was being sexually abused for years by my father no one knew...even after we discovered it she wouldn't talk to anyone about it. About 2 months ago she was going crazy because she had never told anyone...but now she is in counseling and has never been better. I promise you will be ok but you need to let someone know so they can help you.
2006-11-29 23:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told any body yet? Dont be afraid to tell her she will help you because i got abused when i was little and i was scared just like you and i finally told somebody and the person had to leave our house and he could not come back unless he was supervised. thats all i can say
2006-11-29 22:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by dolphin26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie you need to tell her. Don't be afraid because whatever you disclose to her she cannot tell someone else, like your parents. But if you are being abused I believe that it would be her responsibility to tell the proper authorities like the police or dept of children and families.
2006-11-29 22:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Vira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel uncomfortable telling her, write it down and pass it to her. She will have questions, but you won't have to come right out and say it to start the subject. You do need to tell, it is very important that you do and you will feel a huge weight lifted from your shoulders and wish you had fessed up sooner. I do hope you let her know. This does not need to continue. My prayers are with you.
2006-11-29 22:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by mom of 2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to come out & tell her. A theropist opeossed to a phsyciatrist or phycologist are trained to ask you questions for you to tell them the answers, also many will not risk a law suit by asking and having a irait parent sue them (if false) You have complete patient confidenuality she can not tell your parents w/o your approval. Tell her, she can help you!
2006-11-29 22:52:42 · answer #10 · answered by notAminiVANmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋