Ladies, What do you do when you catch someone checking you out?

Question

What do you do when you are interested in them? When your not? Do you stare back?

What if its in class and a lecture is going on and you can't say hi?

Answer 1

Smile and check them out at the same time...human connections are always a positive learning experience. You may discover something about yourself or someone else, which you did not know before and that may not necessarily be sexual. =^..^=

Answer 2

Men check me out a lot ever since I was about 14 (I'm 24 now). It got worse as I got older and it was somewhat of a problem when I first started going out with my boyfriend. He really disliked seeing all those men staring at me but at the same time he (fortunately) isn't the type of man to throw a jealousy fit so the frustration would really build up. Fortunately he's gotten used to it and I suppose I'm used to it as well even if some times it gets really upsetting. Being at college and not being able to go somewhere without having men stare at you and making comments isn't exactly a confortable situation.
I realize saying all this is rather conceited of me but it justifies why I prefer to not do anything at all when someone checks me out, I simply just ignore them, I have to.

Answer 3

Of course we don't stare back, we aren't idiots. We might smile a very little bit, as we look away again, or if we're feeling really flirty, maybe give him a wink. When we're not, well, I can only speak for me, and I either just pretend I don't notice at all, or if he's being a jerk about it, probably just roll my eyes and then turn my attention back to whomever I'm with.

Answer 4

Sometimes it is flattering. However, I think that if there is a significant age difference, or if the guys body langauge is over the top, of if he makes comments then it is wrong. But if it is just a little checking out with no follow up, it makes me feel special. I don't make the first move, I think that just dating someone because of they way they look is shallow and mundane.

Answer 5

Everyone woman is different...when I was single I tried not to pay much attention to it if someone was checking me out. If they had enough confidence to approach me then I would give it more thought, even the guys who were not super attractive. If they seemed like my type of guy I'd approach them. That was how I met my husband. He said it was my confidence was what really turned him on!!! But both of us find confidence a turn on.

Answer 6

The first thing I do when some guy is checking me out (strangely enough, they are usually a lot older than me) I look at them briefly and then keep minding my business. And sometimes, if he is good looking, I keep looking to see if he is still looking...if he isnt, I dont even bother.

Answer 7

Well, if the girl likes you or thinks you're hot, she'll avoid your gaze and pretend that she doesn't see you. She might try to act all cute in front of you and everything. If she doesn't like you, she'll make a weird face, kinda turn around, and just keep checking back. haha. :] Us girls usually don't stare back: we like to pretend we don't notice you so you'll keep staring. XD Hope I helped!

Answer 8

depends, if he is cute/handsome. I will stare him back with a smile. If he is ugly and check me out the "Dirty" way, I will walk away to avoid him.

Answer 9

I have a boyfriend so if I feel someone staring at me I ignore them.

Answer 10

well i am married so i am never interested in amy men, i couldn't care less. but when i notice a man checking me out i get very embarasses and find myself walking the other direction. i feel my face blushing and i often try to leave unnoticed. don't know why. just do....hope this helps ya!!!!!!