She has a male visitor everyday, she deny's it, her family tells me, she says who are you going to believe? I really am hurt, not because she's got someone else, why lie to me???
2006-11-29 14:33:24 · 18 answers · asked by lee f 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Love is hard enough without mates that lie to you. Having a mate that lies to you is painful and difficult. You must let yourself be freed from this or you will continue to live in the center of it, destroying yourself. There is someone out there that was exactly made for you and when you meet this person, it will be like slipping on an old glove that is perfectly fitted to you and you will not have to worry about the pain of the lies and distrust anymore. Love to you.
2006-11-30 03:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by shaj318 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's lying b/c right now you're letting her get by w/ it. It may be painful but you need to get out of the realtionship now, she'll just keep walking all over you if you don't. Obviously I don't know you but noone deserves to be deceived like that. Why would her family lie about something like that & it seems strange she's the only one denying it. Move on find someone new.
2006-11-29 14:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by Kim 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are in a relationship and no matter how rotten the other person seems to be.
You as their partner are obligated to give them the benefit of the doubt. Listen it's the creed of all relationships. Yeah even if it is her family; you are not in that relationship with her family you're in the relationship with her, the good and the bad comes along for the ride. Even families can do a lot of interferring. I had one like that I don't talk to them anymore, and they had their way my husband and I would've been divorced years ago. Any ways you know her family better than me.
So now you give her the benefit of the doubt and she does it again and you have concrete proof than you bring her to the block.
2006-11-29 14:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's interesting to try to figure out who the "she" is. If she is someone you have a relationship with, why wouldn't you care that she has someone else? Here's what I would do -- when she asks you the next time who you are going to believe, tell her that you believe your own eyes, and your eyes see a liar. Then dump her.
2006-11-29 14:38:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anniesgran 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should or did you tell her you really believe her family but as long as you dont see it and she doesnt bring it in your surrounding its not ok but to keep it on a level where there will be no harm brought to you and soo and real soon whats done in the rinse will show in the wash .....
2006-11-29 15:07:59 · answer #5 · answered by Darnella C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop wondering and walk away before you get too hurt. She is an obvious lair. You'll never be able to trust her completely again, believe me, been there!
2006-11-29 14:36:33 · answer #6 · answered by innocent391 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the lie is bad, but the fact that it is about doing somebody else really sucks, find out for sure, and then dump the hoe.
2006-11-29 14:52:13 · answer #7 · answered by Joe V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are asking for this,pal......stop whining and dump this chic. Why are you putting up with this? Get yourself together and make better relationship choices.....it is not that hard to figure out.
2006-11-29 14:36:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get evidence!!! then you know shes telling the truth.. BUT dont let her find out ur like spyin on her :) gd luck
2006-11-29 14:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by hypocrisy_00 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants to try to have you both?! I wouldn't tolerate that. Kick her to the curb. I don't know about you, but I HATE being lied to...
2006-11-29 14:36:46 · answer #10 · answered by Jenna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋