Do you think im pregnant?

Question

Im only 13 and ive been with my boyfriend for a year now. And we had unprotected sex. Well ive been naseous and dizzy but im very scared to tell my mom that i might be pregnant because i know she would kick me out my house. I already talked about it with my boyfriend and he said to go live with him but im very scared and dont know what to do!! What do you think i should do?

Answer 1

Check to see if these relate and then go to your doctor.

Tender, swollen breasts
One of the early signs of pregnancy is sensitive, sore breasts caused by increasing levels of hormones. The soreness may feel like an exaggerated version of how your breasts feel before your period. Your discomfort should diminish significantly after the first trimester, as your body adjusts to the hormonal changes.

Fatigue
Feeling tired all of a sudden? No, make that exhausted. No one knows for sure what causes early pregnancy fatigue, but it's possible that rapidly increasing levels of the hormone progesterone are contributing to your sleepiness.

You should start to feel more energetic once you hit your second trimester, although fatigue usually returns late in pregnancy when you're carrying around a lot more weight and some of the common discomforts of pregnancy make it more difficult to get a good night's sleep

Nausea or vomiting
If you're like most women, morning sickness won't hit until about a month after conception. (A lucky few escape it altogether.) But some women do start to feel queasy a bit earlier. And not just in the morning, either — pregnancy-related nausea and vomiting can be a problem morning, noon, or night.

About half of women with nausea feel complete relief by the beginning of the second trimester. For most others it takes another month or so for the queasiness to ease up.

Increased sensitivity to odors
If you're newly pregnant, it's not uncommon to feel repelled by the smell of a bologna sandwich or cup of coffee and for certain aromas to trigger your gag reflex. Though no one knows for sure, this may be a side effect of rapidly increasing amounts of estrogen in your system. You may also find that certain foods you used to enjoy are suddenly completely repulsive to you.

Abdominal bloating
Hormonal changes in early pregnancy may leave you feeling bloated, similar to the feeling some women have just before their period arrives. That's why your clothes may feel snugger than usual at the waistline, even early on when your uterus is still quite small.

Frequent urination
Shortly after you become pregnant, you may find yourself hurrying to the bathroom all the time. Why? Mostly because during pregnancy the amount of blood and other fluids in your body increases, which leads to extra fluid being processed by your kidneys and ending up in your bladder.

This symptom may start as early as six weeks into your first trimester and continue or worsen as your pregnancy progresses and your growing baby exerts more pressure on your bladder.

A missed period
If you're usually pretty regular and your period doesn't arrive on time, you'll probably take a pregnancy test long before you notice any of the above symptoms. But if you're not regular or you're not keeping track of your cycle, nausea and breast tenderness and extra trips to the bathroom may signal pregnancy before you realize you didn't get your period.

Your basal body temperature stays high
If you've been charting your basal body temperature and you see that your temperature has stayed elevated for 18 days in a row, you're probably pregnant

Good luck.

Answer 2

ouch well you shouldn't have had sex this young but....if you go to wal-mart they have a cheap pregnancy test. It's the same acurasy as all the other ones out there. It's only probably 3.00 at the most. anyways take it right after you were suppose to start your period. You can take it 1 day late too. But if you wait for a couple days after you were suppose to start the results will be better. I would tell your parents. Parents are there for you and they will know you are scared and they can help/comfort you. I wish you good luck and if you are pregnant i wish you your baby and your boyfriend the best of luck.....there's nothing like having a son or daughter that makes life worth living.

Answer 3

i think firs tthing is first and thats to find out if you are actually pregnant because you could be worrying for nothing. If you are pregnant i wish you the best of luck in whatever decision it is that you make. If it turns out that you arent pregnant then i hope that this scare will be the last and you will be more careful by either using condoms or talking to your dr about getting on birth control. If you can not afford bc there is clinics and planned parenthood that offer free birthcontrol. You are very young and it is unfortunate that you are growing up so fast but youve already made your choices so dont mess your youth up by an unwanted pregnancy. Trust me it's not somehting you want to go through at this point.

Answer 4

Okay. Try to calm down. The symptoms you are describing don't sound like early pregnancy signs. Well..nauseau is but not dizziness. Now stress from thinking you may be pregnant and not wanting to be CAN cause those symptoms.

if you haven't missed a period yet I would quit stressing about this until you do. (Not that a missed period is the only sign).

But if you want to be sure, wait another copule of weeks and go buy a home pregnancy test or if there is any way you can get to a free clinic, they will give you a free, confidential test. This will hopefully put your mind at ease.

THEN learn from this. PLEASE. I'm not trying to lecture. It's just immportant. Yes--pregnancy at 13 would be pretty bad but so would an STD or even worse HIV. Please, please, please use protection EVERYTIME.

And you may be surprised about your Mom and whether she would kick you out. I know there would be a lot of stress if you did turn up positive but she may just need time to take it in.

Good luck.

Answer 5

Hey hun I am not here to judge you! You need to tell your mom you think your pregnant. I thought i was pregnant when I was 17 after being with my boyfriend for 4 years and i was sooo scared I thought she would kick me out and hate me cuz she always talked so badly about if i ever became pregnant young. I finally told her and she was there for me 100% Your mom might do the same thing. You need to tell her or you could always go to a planned parenthood you could get a pregnancy test for free! Whatever happens I wish you luck and plz tell ur mom, it might be the best decision you'll make! Good luck!

Answer 6

First of all, I don't think I have to tell you what a STUPID thing you did, not only by having sex, but by having unprotected sex!!! What is wrong with you??? You're thirteen...are you ready for the consequences of your actions??? Are you ready to be a mother? Is he ready to be a father? Or, are you ready to make the difficult decision to have an abortion and accept the emotional consequences of that decision? Or are you prepared to carry the baby to term and give it up for adoption??? Are you aware of the impact this will have your future? Are you ready for your parents to kick you out?? If the answer is no to any of the above questions then you clearly aren't ready for the responsibility of having sex. And now, the life of an unborn child hangs in the balance because of your actions.

You need to tell your parents. And of course, they will be FURIOUS with you, and with good reason. They will probably come to accept it, but I'm sure they will be very upset and very disappointed in you. I'm sure they thought they raised you better than that. But, considering that you choose to keep this child, you will need their help as you are both WAY too young to handle this on your own.

First of all, you need to get a home pregnancy test. If you have a positive result you need to get to a doctor or a Planned Parenthood and discuss your options. I'm not saying you should keep it, I'm not saying you shouldn't, but you should be aware of your options. Regardless, you need to tell your parents and be held accountable for your actions.

And if you're not pregnant, you need to get some birth control ASAP...13 yrs old...what were you thinking???

Answer 7

Buy a pregnancy test, and when the time comes for your period, take it.

How much anxiety is wasted by young women fantasizing they're pregnant, and asking on Yahoo if they "could be" when they could just (1) use protection in the first place and (2) go buy and take a test? It's absurd. You can't know till your period is due so just don't worry about it! The fact that you are worrying about it may be a sign that you are deliberately trying to get pregnant for attention, or to "spice up your life" or something. It rarely works, but think how sad if it did and you were that child! Please, reexamine your motivations for having sex.

Answer 8

Have you missed a period? That is a sign of pregnancy way before nausea. Before you go and tell your mom, go and get a pregnancy test from the .99 cent store and take it in the bathroom when you wake up to get ready for school. After you shower, read the result and then wad it up in some toilet paper, put it in your back pack and throw it in the garbage when you get to school. No need to tell your mom ANYTHING before you know for sure.

STOP HAVING SEX! YOU ARE TOO YOUNG!

Answer 9

go to a clinic and tell them whats going on. they usually wont tell ur parents. and if ur pregnant i think its best that u do tell ur mom... legally she cant kick u out of the house until ur atleast 16.. in some states... anyway who knows it might be nothing. but if u want my advice... next time u have sex... use a condom. STD's are everywhere. and no im not saying u or ur bf goes around and screws everything im just saying its better safe then sry

Answer 10

Honey this is sad, I tell you what, have your boyfriend buy you a pregnancy test & if your not pregnant this should be a lesson to you to ask the Lord for forgiveness and start over try not to have sex anymore until you are emotionally ready... LIKE until "marriage" would be best !!!!