i am trying to move on i know i dont love him but then again i want him to come back to me its been along realationship thats why im hooked on him but its somethin about that makes me love him and to the point where he lied and cheated at least twice you guys dont know how i feel i really do need counceling please can one of you do it i really need it and i need him its like im better with him than without he was my everything but it looks like i really do need to move on
2006-11-29 14:11:41 · 7 answers · asked by maxamarra s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well I'm only 15 years old but i think i can relate to your situation. When i was in seventh grade i found my first love. I loved him so much and we ended up being together for 2 years and 6 in a half months. i broke up with him because he cheated on me once. Since then i have missed him soo much. I thought that i needed him in my life to be there for me and to make me happy.
But, i finally found someone else and realized that the feelings i had for my EX is nothing close to the feelings that i have for my new boyfriend.
my point is that you may think that you love him and miss him but what your really missing and in love with is all the good times and the great memories that you too shared together.
You dont miss Him!!
You will find someone else who will feel the same way you do and you'll be happier.
2006-11-29 14:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really love him after all these things (cheating and lying)? It's normal to be hurt; however, you know yourself best that you need to move on, right? So, do it!
You MUST tell yourself that you're worth more than this. No one can take care of your heart better than you. I know it's very difficult but after you did it will be difficult in the first month. Later you will feel relieved, really. Believe me. You don't need any "s h i t" in your life. You did all you best. Just remember the happy time iwth him and tell yourself that it's finish.
Good Luck
2006-11-29 22:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because its a long relationship,you want him back.You don't realize that you don't have anymore feeling for him,do you?
You want this relationship to con't because you felt all the effort that you threw in it is now all vanished.
Get moving now or never,just because this relationship is a failure,doesn't mean you have cling on it forever.Like you said,you are better without him,then,leave him to become a better person.
2006-11-29 22:40:09 · answer #3 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been there to...
i think you gotta go and leave him. There's no way you stay holding on the relationship.
Once you leave and make it through, you will just smile remembering him.. :)
be strong...
2006-11-29 22:22:17 · answer #4 · answered by dewilully 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need him if he cheated on you.chances are hes still doing it
2006-11-29 22:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're right. you gotta move on. go find someone else, but don't jump into it again. play the field.
2006-11-29 22:14:47 · answer #6 · answered by yoyo l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
........ uh u love him?
2006-11-29 22:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋