How can a dream feel so real?

Question

Hey mj_indigo if you are reading this then tell me why you get at it that in my dream i was kissing my husband?He is my brother-in-laws brother, but,my brother in law isnt my brother in law, my sister isnt married..i just think of him that way-------I want to let him know how i feel about him but he is married,not happily married i might add.and he is going back to mexico soon,he like's me also, he has for about 2-3 years.Should i tell him how i feel b-4 he leave's or keep leading him on that i think of him as a friend and nothing more?Someone plz help..

Answer 1

are you KIDDING me with this crap!!?? You did say MARRIED, right scank??!! He took vows you homewrecker - for better OR worse!! Close your s l u t a s s legs and go home!!

Answer 2

Dreams feel real because the parts of the brain that are working are the same parts that we experience while we are awake. The brain can't discern, in the middle of a dream that what it is experiencing is not real.

When we remember things, the memory, in the brain, is nearly identical to the original experience. The difference is that the image is not coming from the eyes, ears, nose, etc. The brains still sees it as "real". It's the same thing with dreams. That's why, when awaking from a very vivid dream, you might find yourself reaching for an item that existed in your dream.

Answer 3

if he is married then you should leave it alone. there is no reason to hurt an already wounded marriage by confessing feelings for him when he is leaving the country soon and you won't be able to have a relationship with him anyway.

Answer 4

Stop eating those extra spice chili dogs, then they won't be so real.

Answer 5

Wow...sounds like you live up to your name! I don't know, but it's really scary sometimes, you wish you could wake yourself up.

Answer 6

i like the initial question, but the explanation is exasperatingly long.

Answer 7

sorry i cant read that proply to confussing

Answer 8

thanks for the points though