I think that I am bi-curious, but I don't know for sure if I am bisexual because I have never had any homosexual experiences. I mean, girls turn me on and all, but I think I'd like to kiss a guy, just to know for sure. What should I do and how should I go about doing it?
2006-11-29 14:01:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First off, let's get this straight (no pun intended!)- you DO NOT have to have had sexual experience with either sex in order to be bisexual. Take it from me, a bisexual virgin of both sexes- it's not about what you do with whom, but what you'd like to do, and with whom.
Since you've given this some thought, you're definitely bicurious; possibly bisexual, although that remains to be seen. It's perfectly fine to want to 'know for sure', but remember- don't use people as sexual guinea pigs. People deserve better than that, and if you're going to use someone to test your sexual orientation, that person better know about why you're doing it, and be okay with that. Honestly, in my opinion, all the gay acts you can do with a man won't cement anything down for you. I mean, think of it this way- a lot of straight people have their first kiss/first sexual experience with the opposite sex . . . and hate it. It doesn't mean they aren't straight. People have bad sex all the time, but it doesn't affect their orientation. The best way to test these things is with your desire- do you get turned on by men or the thought of men together? Could you imagine yourself having a sexually satisfying experience with a man in the future? These are better questions to ask and answer to discover if you are bisexual.
And, as always, I believe that if you are with someone you love and are sexually attracted to, the sex will be wonderful. It's always nice to find that person.
Hop that helps and good luck!
2006-11-29 14:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find someone that you know is gay, or bi, and - first - get comfortable with them. Then, let them know you are curious how a kiss with a guy can be. However, IF this one time doesn't "do it" for you, it doesn't mean much - similar to a gal, one person can kiss poorly, while another can make your toes curl. If you find, after a kiss w/ a different guy [or more] that no sparks come, then your curiousity should be taken care of....
2006-11-30 11:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by WalksEternal 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find out. Find someone gay you trust and have real attraction to, and kiss him. You'll know. If you like it, keep going. If you hate it, you never have to talk about it ever again. It'll be your secret. But it's far better you find out than have these questions nag you for years.
2006-11-30 05:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by Mac181 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok heres some advice from me and what i did. I dated a grl and we kissed but honestly i get turned on by grls and harldy any guys but thats just me i noticed it actually after i dated that grl and after we kissed n evrything
2006-11-29 22:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it takes a receptive partner. good luck trying to find one(not saying you wont). but when you find the one you want you have to be aggressive in terminology not actions. in order to figure him out. i wish you much luck, me
2006-11-29 22:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by shyboy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know...if you are underage be careful and don't hook up with pervs on the internet..if you aren't just find a gay and give it a try
2006-11-29 22:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're even asking this question you have some gay tendencies...go for it.
2006-11-29 22:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
find a gay bar and you'll find out soon enough.
2006-11-29 22:04:50 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please don't tell me that u let the spirits of sodom and ghomorh get through you.
2006-11-29 22:04:09 · answer #9 · answered by Jesuslovesyou 1 · 0⤊ 5⤋