Does a man really ever have control when using the pulling out method as birth control? (when u pull out before a male cums)...
yes i knwo there is pre-ejaculation and that can get a woman pregnant... but thsoe a man ever really have control over his "memeber"?
2006-11-29 13:22:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
well i am on the patch.. and up until saturday.. we ahven't been using condoms to see how it feels with out a condom... and well we are doing pull out and i'm using th epatch.. but thanx for ur answers .. anymore thoughts on it?
2006-11-29 13:29:15 · update #1
No. He thinks he does but that little head takes over for the big head and does its own thing. The old "...I'[ll pull it out before I *** so you won't get pregnant..." is an old saw as old as babies being born, Remember! Every time you do it (protection or BC doesn't matter) you risk pregnancy, stds, sida, aids.
2006-11-29 13:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by Donald W 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that is a "sticky situation", for the most part if the guy doesn't get caught up he knows when the act is going to happen. The problem lies when he doesn't want to "happen" too soon, so he tries to slow things down and the like, well here the guy can produce sperm without even knowing it, similar to when a guy can *** doing strenuous lifting or even straining on the toilet, sperm will be ejected without any orgasm whatsoever. However, don't forget that if you are trying to have kids it is actually pretty difficult, there is only a 2 to 3 day window a month where everything is right to get pregnant. But more importantly in todays world getting pregnant is not the main reason for a condom there are way too may "things" out there that most people can carry for there entire life and not show signs of and spread around. for example most men don't show signs of chlamydia, or for example things like genital warts can't even be detected by a doctor unless during an outbreak, and some people with strong immune systems will never have an outbreak but continue to spread the disease.
2006-11-29 23:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by plazze1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy can feel it comming but after a certain point there is no way to stop it, So technically the answer could be yes and no. Also like you mentioned you know there is sperm in the pre-ejaculate so you gould still get pregnant. According to what I have read the majority of people that use the pull out method are known as parents.
2006-11-29 21:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by trollwzrd 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I must be extra spacial, me and my wife have been using the pull out strategy for 3 years now, I use a condom about once every 5 times. she has not gotten pregnant. I might would want to get checked out. We have one child together, and yeas our daughter is from me. she is six years old. I must be pretty good at holding it right when its ready, then she finishes me off with her hand right at the moment. I guess I should meet up with billy the kid for being quick.
Oh yea, I dont recomend it. I would say that 1 out of 25 guys could succesfully do it, I question if your partner is one.
2006-11-29 23:15:41 · answer #4 · answered by bradlitazole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course a man can feel when he is about to ***. Some guys can control their member much more so than others and all guys have different amounts of precum from little to nothing to a steady leakage. I happen to not leak very much and I have used this method of birth control successfully in the past, but I still would not recommend it. Best of luck to you.
2006-11-29 21:41:16 · answer #5 · answered by mikestudster 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some might tell you that just to get you pregnant so they can trap you. but then that doesn't always work cause alot of single parents are making it just fine.
And some women will take that chance cause they are the same way, or not too bright or don't care if they get pregnant.
2006-11-29 21:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by naturegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn the art of tantric sex, its when a man learns to stop ejaculation each time to build up into a large climax at the finnal finnishing point. it really is better then anything else!
2006-11-29 22:08:22 · answer #7 · answered by colera667 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pull out = pregnancy!
even if a man thinks he has full control he doesnt - some is always likely to dribble out without him knowing
dont risk it!
2006-11-29 21:27:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Coitus Interuptus is NOT a contraceptive method. It is more like playing russian roulette!
2006-11-30 09:29:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pulling out should be outlawed it doens't protect againist stds
2006-11-29 21:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by sevenandahalf7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋